First time?

    Do you remember the details of the very first time you and your spouse had sex (use your definition)?  What did you say to each other?  Was it funny?  Awkward?  Where did it happen?

    Fell out of ... Asked on August 9, 2019 in Activities & Items .

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    on August 14, 2019.
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      I should add that my wife passed out the first time, right after I gave her an orgasm in the hot tub. I had to help her downstairs to the bed, where she recovered. It was probably due to the fact that she hadn’t eaten much that day, plus the hot water of the tub.

      Years later, she likes to joke with our friends that she passed out the first time she saw my erection. 😆

      California King Answered on August 10, 2019.
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        Our wedding night. Had done everything but PIV by that point but were very excited. She had special white lingerie. I put rose petals on the bed. Did some foreplay, then moved to missionary with added lube and had simultaneous Os soon after. Cuddled for a few minutes talking then she got on top and we both Od again. Had a naked picnic on the floor with a basket of goodies from our caterer. Then back in bed for one more round but she was sore so I finished and she didn’t that last time. Then we passed out from exhaustion. We were still finding those stupid rose petals years later. 😂

        King bed Answered on August 10, 2019.
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          Do you remember the details of the very first time you and your spouse had sex (use your definition)?

          Yes. It was on our wedding night. We didn’t attempt intercourse but we did get naked and I had an orgasm. It took several months after the wedding for her to have her first O.

          What did you say to each other? 

          She didn’t talk really. I think I tried the Song of Solomon approach (complement various parts of her body as they were revealed).

          Was it funny?  Awkward? 

          Mostly fun but it was intensely personal for DW. She started crying after she was naked and I honestly didn’t know how to handle her intense emotion.

          Where did it happen?

          Bedroom of her apartment after the wedding.

          California King Answered on August 11, 2019.
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            It was the quickest 8 seconds ever!

            California King Answered on August 11, 2019.
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              It was my first time being intimate with anybody, and it was our wedding night. It was very awkward and did not go the way I had often fantasized about my wedding night growing up. I felt very disappointed and sad afterwards. HOWEVER, I also felt a stronger love and closeness with my wife, and I knew that she truly loved me, too, and that we had consummated our marriage and we would never be apart again. THAT was the important thing, and that feeling of love and commitment for each other, NOT the frustrations or disappointments, is the memory that I have chosen to keep in my heart and mind from my first time being intimate with her 🙂

              — Eye Above The Storm

              Queen bed Answered on August 12, 2019.
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                Do you remember the details of the very first time you and your spouse had sex (use your definition)?

                Yes

                  What did you say to each other?

                I don’t remember what was said.

                  Was it funny?

                Not really.

                  Awkward?

                Probably.  We were both virgins.

                  Where did it happen?

                In the hotel where we were staying on our wedding night.

                Hammock Answered on August 13, 2019.
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                  On our wedding night.  Her family lived far away.  We were in her country.  She was particular about how she wanted the wedding and did not get family support from nearby relatives and was planning a lot of it herself.  I could not speak her language, the national language, well, and did not help that much.  I was moving stuff to our new apartment the day before our wedding. We had a long photo shoot and were both tired, but especially her.

                  In her country, you have a party first.  Fortunately, we didn’t do the traditional thing of going to the bride’s relatives house on the wedding night, hearing advice from parents and older relatives, and everyone sleeping on the floor.

                  We went to the hotel.  I  took my clothes off fast.  She was a bit shocked at how quick I was ready to get into it.  She had all kinds of stuff to take off.  She wanted to take a bath first, not a bath a shower.  Turns out she liked slightly warmer than luke warm water.  A friend of hers called about returning the rented dress during our time there.

                  I fingered my wife in the bathtub.  We went to the bed, and she was so exhausted, she was falling asleep.  I don’t know if I slightly penetrated her or just rubbed around the opening there.  I might have gotten in a bit as we were having sex while she was trying not to dose off.  I just ejaculated quickly so I could do it before she slept.  It didn’t seem to hurt her or anything.  In the morning, we had to rush to return the dress before a relatively early flight out of the country to a country we would stay a few days before returning to the US to meet my parents.  It was cold in that country.  We did have sex there.  I remember doing her from behind among other things, which kind of hurt her perineum.

                  My parents hadn’t met her, so we were having sex in my parents house in the bed and at least once on the bathroom floor.  Her period came way too soon, I remember.

                  We flew back to her country after that.  We came in after a 20 or 30 or so hour flight.  She wanted to do it on one of the beds in our new apartment at 1 or 2 am.  I wasn’t feeling good the next day and took a sick day.  We settled into a pattern of sex every day, then sex one day hand job the next and hand jobs on period days.  But that got less frequent after the first pregnancy and when we had kids.

                  Queen bed Answered on August 27, 2019.
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                    Hammock Answered on September 4, 2019.
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