Friday, January 3, 2020 – Today’s Question (s) of the Day

    What sexual act/position/kink will you be more open to for the year 2020 and how do you plan on changing your mindset and heart about it? 

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on January 3, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      I can’t think of one! As far as I can tell, there are none that I’m avoiding or aspiring to. But, if DW comes up with another one, I’ll be open minded 😀

      Under the stars Answered on January 3, 2020.
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        There’s very little fairly mainstream things I/we haven’t done in our past.  Being “open to them” wouldn’t be because they are new and unknown, my dilemma is around trust and emotional ability.  I almost didn’t answer this question because I won’t commit to things I am not sure I can fulfill….and writing something specific would feel like a commitment to me.  All I can promise, is I will continue to have a surrendered spirit for Christ to work on and heal.  And as healing in me and trust in my husband develop, I will continue to take steps forward, including sexually, however that may look at that time.

        Under the stars Answered on January 3, 2020.
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          I’d be open to trying pretty much anything! Better question is will my wife ever come up with anything on her own.🤞

          Fell out of ... Answered on January 3, 2020.
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            I can think of a number of sexual things we are not open to.  But that does not mean we are closed to them because their are new or kink.   We are open to passion and our pleasure, we certainly enjoy plenty of it and are willing to experience things within that blessing of ours.  If there was something my DW wanted to try I would put my heart wrapped with plenty of enthusiasm right into it.

            Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on January 3, 2020.
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              We have a few ideas we would like to try. However, we still need to work through a few things, which we are working on.

              Under the stars Answered on January 3, 2020.
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                Working on being a better “spanker” and embracing the idea of including some bondage elements. DW enjoys being spanked and likes the idea of being cuffed/tied. Now to get the house to ourselves more. I haven’t been able to spank quietly so far!

                Queen bed Answered on January 3, 2020.
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                  I am open to a variety of positions, activities that are currently not part of my marriage bed. The issue for me is how to work with my DW to expand the range of activities she finds pleasurable.

                  On the floor Answered on January 4, 2020.
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                    We talked about this last night before bedtime (activities). Zelda didn’t have anything, but Scott came up with one–he wants to be more open to initiating without fear of rejection or even just the fear of putting himself out there.

                    Initiating with confidence is tough!

                    -Scott

                    Under the stars Answered on January 4, 2020.
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                      I would like to do more with costumes & roleplay in the coming year.

                      California King Answered on January 4, 2020.
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                        Based on my wife’s and my conversation last weekend, what I feel like we can look forward to this year:

                        1. My wife becoming more comfortable indulging certain desires I have involving clothes.

                        2. My wife thinking harder about her own fantasies/kinks/unique desires. Unlike me, she doesn’t really have any in mind. However, she understands that I would love to indulge her in any that she might come up with.

                        3. Writing erotic stories for each other.

                        Queen bed Answered on January 4, 2020.
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