Full length bullet vibe?

     Hello all! 

    So I’m looking for a vibe as thin as a bullet but longer. 

     When my wife and I were married she was very inexperienced and shy but I had actually worked in a sex shop years ago before Jesus. It took a bit to get her used to the idea of toys and I just stimulated her clit manually. After a while I introduced a bullet vibe I jokingly called the “Finger Saver 5000” so I don’t get carpal tunnel. She pretty quickly grew more comfortable with toys and we graduated to a humble but solid collection. 

     

     The thing is we still use the bullet when WOT because it fits. It’s great and all but dog gonnit the Finger Saver 5000 is hard to hold with my fingers especially when it’s slippery!!! In a hilarious turn of events the item I pitched as “easier on my hands” is actually starting to hurt my hand! 

     

     I’d really like TMB’s suggestions for a vibe that fits between when she’s on top but that is easier to hold! Thanks!  

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      I will be following this thread with interest, as we’ve been thinking of ways to get Zelda highly pleasured during WOT.

      Have you considered the We-Vibe Tango? I have seen it get outstanding reviews in multiple places and may be just what you’re looking for. Note that it is considered quite powerful for its size. We have the Tango’s “cousin”, the We-Vibe Touch, which has been super awesome. However, the Touch is thicker and just barely fits between our bodies in WOT and wasn’t really enough for her because precision placement wasn’t possible. I’m sure it’d work for some body shapes, just not ours.

      If grip is a problem, you might try the Dame Fin. It is extremely ergonomic and shouldn’t slip. This was actually the first vibe we tried, and it worked, but we found the Touch to just be better because Zelda requires a pretty strong vibration, which this does not provide. I got the impression that you (the DH) would be holding/controlling the vibe, so check the three different “positions” you can hold it in about halfway down the linked page (particularly the second position, which should be easy on your wrist!)

      Unfortunately, all of the above are pretty pricey. However, they’re high quality for sure! If you’re looking for cheaper, I recommend browsing Married Dance’s Bullet Vibes Page. You can also look into hands-free vibes, though the reviews I’ve read on those have been all over the place.

      Good luck, and please let us know if you have success!

      -Scott

      p.s.  In case the above links don’t work, here they are in order in a form that allows copy/paste:

      https://marrieddance.com/shop/vibrators/bullets-eggs/tango/

      https://marrieddance.com/shop/vibrators/clitoris-cuddlers/we-vibe-touch/

      https://marrieddance.com/shop/vibrators/finger-vibrators/fin/

      https://marrieddance.com/product-category/vibrators/bullets-eggs/

      Under the stars Answered on May 28, 2020.
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        I like the Lelo Mona shape because it’s easy to hold.

        King bed Answered on May 28, 2020.
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          Like @Scott, I would be interested in this as well. My wife prefers the wand and finds it to be the most powerful to reach an O.  Other bullets that are either battery operated or charged battery don’t seem to provide the stimulation she says she needs. So something really powerful in a longer bullet shape would be perhaps a blessing. We sometimes will use the wand during PIV for mutual stimulation and orgasm, however, it tends to be a bit bulky for both. A really  powerful thin vibe might be the ticket for mutual stimulation or if she wants to use if solo for either vaginal insertion or clitoral stimulation, if I am catching the drift of your inquiry @ElevenOclock. The power more than the shape is what’s important.

          On the floor Answered on May 28, 2020.
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            Another DH here who has spent lots of time looking for a bullet that can give my the same pleasure as her wand. I am happy that the wand is effective in helping my wife O, however, as noted by others, it is big and hard to use when want to cuddle. The challenge in finding a replacement is my DW says she prefers the ‘lower frequency’ kinds of vibrations that the wand provides, as opposed to the higher frequency ‘buzzy’ kinds of vibrations most of the smaller bullets provide.

            On the floor Answered on May 29, 2020.
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              You can let her hold it.

              Soon after my wife got married, I took a trip overseas to a country that had sex toys.  i forget which one. The one we were in had no sex toys that I knew of, or not much of a selection.  I saw a dildo-shaped ‘face massager’ once in the pre-Internet-marketing days.

              Anyway, I got this thing with a vibe that clamped to the finger, connected by a wire to a controller.  There may have been multiple vibs.  It was useful.

              I kind of regret introducing vibs.  My wife orgasms fairly easily.  Before vibs, I’d do OS on her for 15 minutes to half an hour whenever we had sex.  That was more intimate.  After vibes, she just wanted me to slowly enter and do her, and lost her interest in oral sex.  The previous set-up was more intimate and we had fewer quickies and sex lasted longer.

              Hammock Answered on May 29, 2020.
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                @HM and @Olorin:

                You both seem to be talking about more than just WOT. I’d suggest you consider the We-Vibe Tango, as I’ve read a lot and it really seems to be one of the most powerful bullet vibes out there (note that it is “rumbly” or “deep” rather than “buzzy”). I’m not going to link to any of the secular reviews I’ve read on it, as there are often links/pictures that some might find triggering. For HM, I don’t know much about your wife, but I think the Tango is strong enough for most (my wife hadn’t O’d in over 12 yr of marriage before we added vibes, and she O’s nearly ever time with the Touch, which is slightly weaker than the Tango). For Olorin, I’ve read about the intensity your wife needs, and I’m guessing it won’t be enough…but you never know. Either way, though, an additional strong clitoral stimulation during PIV should help it be more enjoyable for your DW’s I’d think!

                (Also, if you’re really looking at all positions for the vibe, we found that side-of-the-bed positions like Butterfly and Packing the Suitcase are great for that!)

                A thought occurred to me–I recommended the Fin for attempting WOT with a vibe, but even though we have it, I don’t think we’ve tried that! We tried the Touch in WOT and it was a bit too thick to work. I guess I need to make the “sacrifice” and have us try it out to see how it works. 😉 😆

                Also, I was really hoping for more responses on this thread. I went looking in other places, and it’s kind of surprising how few answers you can get for a question like this. So many vibes are reviewed and marketed as a solo masturbation thing. Even We-Vibe, which tends to cater to couples, doesn’t do a good job on spelling out which vibes would be good for which positions!

                -Scott

                ETA: this link might be worth reading for some more idea: https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/how-to-use-sex-toys/

                Under the stars Answered on May 29, 2020.

                Out of the loop for a few days @Scott, but wanted to respond. I was primarily thinking of WOT in my response, though other positions are certainly on the table.  My wife has easier access with WOT to using a bullet of some kind to stimulate her.  It’s also easier for her to handle the toy and hit the right spot than for me while on my back.  Thanks though for the other tips.

                on June 2, 2020.
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                  Would a vibrating penis ring work?

                  Essentially it’s a small bullet that the ring would hold against her clitoris.

                  Fell out of ... Answered on May 31, 2020.

                  I did see this recommended when I did this search on secular sites. I have 0 experience with these types of vibrators though. The one recommended on the web site I saw was somewhat expensive, the Lelo Tor 2: https://marrieddance.com/shop/vibrators/vibrating-penis-rings/tor-2/

                  I think for this to work best would require a grinding rather than thrusting type of stimulation.

                  -Scott

                  on May 31, 2020.

                  I have used that one and it is great for stimulating the penis and the clitoris when in the PIV position.  You can keep it pressed up against it or rhythmically while thrusting. It can also be turned around so it hits against the “boys”.

                  on June 2, 2020.
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                    @Scott, a vibrating ring does work best with grinding rather than thrusting, but the ring will work pretty effectively to keep it in place. There’s quite a range on the market from the cheap durex one for about £5 to high end ones where the sky is the limit.

                    Fell out of ... Answered on June 2, 2020.
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