I hope you men find encouragement with that. I personally have been, and am, surrounded by many good guys, not perfect, but honorable in so many ways. I am also trying to raise three of my own. I have realized this year, that it is easier for me to trust men than it is women. This is one reason I have bucked against the extreme, hyper-vigilant teachings on “affair proofing” and about how opposite sexes shouldn’t be friends. There is need in the body of Christ, that only the opposite sex can bring to another, we all need each other, not just the part of the body that is our own gender. God has used brothers in Christ to grow me, heal me, and challenge me. He has used sisters as well, but some of those wounds I have carried, only a good guy as the vessel could have brought healing.
You men have my respect.