I see people talking about grinding. Can someone explain both what it is and what the benefit is. Is it similar to rubbing against someone.
I think I saw someone use it in reference to during missionary PIV, DH moving vertically up and down (towards face/then towards feet) instead of thrusting in and out. If this is the case, maybe I need a better explanation of the mechanics because I tried that and it didn’t seem to work. Do I physically lift my whole body so I can move towards her head? Is the penis supposed to stay inside or come out?
Also, what is the benefits of this during missionary PIV? Is it supposed to rub her clitoris more?
Our grinding tends to go in a circular motion, or he might do like a sway back and forth, there’s no lifting up away from the body.
Yes, the clitoris can be stimulated that way, but for us, when my husband does it, it is when he is stimulating around the cervix, or what some call the “cul de sac” and the A-spot.
ETA for clarification: after reading the OP again, it sounds like he is describing whole body movement, the grinding I describe is basically just his hips moving.
We grind in the missionary position. In our younger years, we perfected it quite well. Done well, it can bring your DW to a strong clitoral climax. Our technique involved me bridging, or rather bracing on my knees and elbows, and Mrs. Youngbear controlling the pressure and grinding. I learned how to move with her to give her the most pleasurable stimulation. Since she knows the pace, pressure, and place on her clitoris, it’s optimal for her to be in control. What made it easy for Mrs. Youngbear was her experience and skill to solo masturbate her clitoris to orgasm. Hope this helps!
Grinding for us is more for me while thrusting is more for my DH. He won’t orgasm from grinding alone. Depending on the position, grinding does one of two things, or both. Deep penetration grinding, especially in WOT positions but can occur in missionary too, gives great A-spot stimulation. And if my clitoris is against my HD’s pubic bone, clitoris stimulation is awesome. Grinding is usually me rocking or rotating my hips but my DH can do it too.
right. for us, grinding is just me shifting positions slightly until I’m “riding high” on her during missionary. Her clit is large enough that it contacts my shaft directly in that position, so this usually results in a fairly rapid orgasm or multiple orgasms for her. Depending on how close I am, I’ll then thrust all the way inside her for the big finish together, or we’ll finish separately, with her going first.