Hard and Fast or Slow and Sensual?
During intercourse which style of thrusting is more pleasurable overall: hard and fast or slow and sensual?
Both DW and I are generally hard and fast people. Now we do love the occasional slow go like when we are having chair sex and just grind on each other. That said what really gets us going is hard and fast. Its more stimulating for DW and my “sexual personality” is bent towards a dominant “ride her hard put her away wet” kind of sex.
It’s almost always a mix for us…. if it’s only hard and fast, than the pleasure is missed. If it’s too slow and sensual, than the peak is never reached, and the climaxing is missed. The slowness of finding that “right spot” and stimulating it and “strumming” it just right, helps build things up to the crescendo, which when we hit that certain window, hard and fast takes things up and over the top.
We like it both ways at different times. Depends on the mood. Slow and lingering can be awesome, especially for me, the wife, because I’ll often orgasm several times that way and then to move into a “hard and fast” finale for both of us is incredible.