Hard and Fast or Slow and Sensual?

    During intercourse which style of thrusting is more pleasurable overall: hard and fast or slow and sensual? 

    Both DW and I are generally hard and fast people. Now we do love the occasional slow go like when we are having chair sex and just grind on each other. That said what really gets us going is hard and fast. Its more stimulating for DW and my “sexual personality” is bent towards a dominant “ride her hard put her away wet” kind of sex.

     

    Fell out of ... Asked on August 3, 2019 in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.
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      It’s almost always a mix for us….  if it’s only hard and fast, than the pleasure is missed.  If it’s too slow and sensual, than the peak is never reached, and the climaxing is missed.   The slowness of finding that “right spot” and stimulating it and “strumming” it just right, helps build things up to the crescendo, which when we hit that certain window, hard and fast takes things up and over the top.

      Under the stars Answered on August 3, 2019.
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        We like it both ways at different times.  Depends on the mood.  Slow and lingering can be awesome, especially for me, the wife, because I’ll often orgasm several times that way and then to move into a “hard and fast” finale for both of us is incredible.

        Fell out of ... Answered on August 3, 2019.
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          We do both, but the majority of times, we like it fast and hard for the big finale, especially for her.

          California King Answered on August 3, 2019.
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            I like a little more slow and sensual, Wifey likes hard and fast. I try to start slow and build to a crescendo, but I usually don’t last long at full throttle.

            California King Answered on August 3, 2019.
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              It’s a mix for us,too, and i like to finish both ways, just depending on the particular time we are ML.  DW isn’t vocal about what she wants, so I usually have the throttle in this area,so to speak.

              Queen bed Answered on August 4, 2019.
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                Personally, I am a hard and slow sort

                Fell out of ... Answered on August 4, 2019.
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                  For PIV sex, wife wants it hard and fast, doesn’t want it to last too long!

                  Fell out of ... Answered on August 4, 2019.
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                    On a scale of 1-10 (1 slowest, 10 fastest), I would say we prefer to ML at a speed of 7 or so.

                    California King Answered on August 4, 2019.
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                      The slow and soft is best for me until she starts calling for deeper and harder!!  Then i cant resist!!

                      Twin bed Answered on August 5, 2019.
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                        Slow is always better for us and builds the tension for the finale.

                        Twin bed Answered on August 3, 2019.
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