Has any females ever tried inserting a dildo and then going out for dinner?

    I read an article somewhere about ladies inserting a dildo for a bit of fun and then go out for dinner or maybe even to work? The article talked about this being quite kinky and fun.

    Has anyone ever done this? Is it even possible?

     

    Double bed Asked on February 11, 2020 in Activities & Items .

    What about those small quite insertable toys that can be controlled by cell phone of spouse?

    on February 11, 2020.

    We have a couples vibrator that could be worn while out.  My wife does not care for it since it is not a tight fit and it makes her look like she is concealing a penis (it adds some bulk to the front).  I am sure ther are better toys out there than this one.

    on February 14, 2020.
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      I haven’t tried it, but it’s been a thought in the past. I don’t see why it couldn’t be possible. She may have to make sure she wears certain types of panties or clothes to keep it in. Or wear a harness to secure it under a skirt.

      If your wife is up to it, why not try it? Worst case scenario, it doesn’t work for some reason (discomfort, etc), she can slip into the restroom, remove it and slip it into her purse…..or your pocket 😉 “Is that a banana in your pocket or are you excited to see me?” (Okay, I just showed my age…. SNL’S “Pat”)

      Weeellllll, I guess the worst case scenario could be she doesn’t secure it well, and as you are walking to your table, it slips out and some lucky family will have a dildo flop on the floor next to them as they are eating. 😳 😀 LOL!  (PS- I excel at thinking up worst case scenarios, I could add more. 😉 )

      Under the stars Answered on February 11, 2020.

      Would a “more worst-case” scenario be some sort of infection or something? Not sure if that body part is meant to undergo that in that way, but I’m certainly not an expert in this area.

      -Scott

      on February 11, 2020.

      For a few hours? It wouldn’t be a concern of mine. I have “worn” other toys around the house for that long. I hear people talking about having sex longer than that.

      That’s where people should use common sense, if she is uncomfortable, she ought to be able to remove it. If she notices negative side effects afterwards, like irritation or perhaps a UTI, maybe it’s no longer an option for them. But at least they tried it.

      BTW, there are different sizes and types of dildos. I am imagining one that can actually fully insert easy enough. Not one that is so big, it’s hanging half-way out. They have harnesses for women, who peg (or are lesbians), where there are/is a smaller dildo(s) to connect and insert (in one or two places) for the harness wearer’s enjoyment. During any kind of sexual play with that, the dildo would be constantly in during that whole play time.

      on February 11, 2020.

      I must admit, my knowledge of dildos is effectively zero, LOL.

      However, regarding “people should use common sense”…have you ever worked in an emergency room or known people that did? 😆

      -Scott

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        Using a tampon for reference, you would likely need something slightly bigger than that, since there are not wide-spread reports of women walking around all day all revved up from wearing tampons.

        Under the stars Answered on February 11, 2020.
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          Thanks for the candor on this. I appreciate the frank discussion.

          I did wonder about size (5″?), so maybe a smaller one would be better?

          Does this do anything for the female though, or is it more annoying?

          Double bed Answered on February 11, 2020.
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            IMO, a smaller one would be better, at least as a starter. If it was me, I would search one of those harnesses I was speaking of in the comments, and see what size those are. If it’s something she really enjoys, it’s definitely something to talk to her about and see if she desires to try something different.

            “Does this do anything for the female though, or is it more annoying?”

            It will be mostly about the mindset. If she’s into it, if she’s thinking about it in a sexual and sensual way, it will do something for her, even if it isn’t necessarily physically stimulating. It will really be about keeping that sexual mindset.

            Under the stars Answered on February 11, 2020.
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              There are in-panty vibrators designed to be worn in public, often controlled by the spouse. Some of those have insertable parts for g spot stimulation. Some people enjoy wearing an anal plug out in public, too.

              California King Answered on February 12, 2020.
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                Why not benwa-balls instead?  Lelo makes some that are meant to be kegel replacements, but wearing those out may have the same effect (plus, with the action of the metal balls moving inside the overall ball, may provide stimulation).

                Queen bed Answered on February 14, 2020.
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                  We have a Lovense Lush 2. It connects to your phone with bluetooth and can be remotely controlled through the Lovense app by your partner through their phone.

                  We took it out of town with us this weekend for Valentines Day. We’ve been meaning to give it a try for a while, but never have had the chance. Since DW had to run to the store for a few things, I asked if she wanted to try it. She was a little hesitant at first, but was willing to give it a go.

                  I controlled it off and on while she drove to the store and had plans to tease her off and on while she walked around inside the store…BUT—she didn’t make it that long and texted me that she had an orgasm right there in the car in the Walmart parking lot!!!

                  For our first try, DW and I both agree it was definitely a success!

                  Hammock Answered on February 15, 2020.

                  That’s awesome. I hadn’t heard of this before and may have to check it out. Not sure if DW would go for it or not.

                  on February 20, 2020.

                  I’ve asked DH to purchase one of these! I can’t wait for it to get here!  I looked at toys for him too on that site – so we both could be having fun!

                  on September 11, 2020.
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                    My wife has used the in-panty vibrators while we were out before and I have controlled when I use it on her. That gets SO fun!

                    Twin bed Answered on March 12, 2020.
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