Has Your Appreciation Of Body Parts Changed?
I’ve been a boob guy since I was a teen and didn’t really get excited over legs and butts. But since we added AS to our repertoire I’ve noticed myself paying more attention to my wife’s posterior and getting turned on by it. I’m still a boob guy by far, but it’s been fun to feel this new appreciation develop in myself.
So, how about others? Am I alone in this?
My husband has become more of a foot guy, not sure why…I do have cute feet 😉
I have gotten more appreciation of the size and hardness of my husband’s muscles since he’s been weightlifting the past few years. I like to feel the contours of them at work during sex/sexual activity, especially in his arms and lower abs/hip region.
I have learned to have more appreciation of the beauty of my own vulva, but I realize that’s not the heart of your question.
I took a full year and repeatedly told my DW that I was not an elbow guy and that I was passionate about her gorgeous, sexy, alluring elbows. I think that the next year was forearms. Yes, I love her boobs, get a tremendous hormonal charge over them as well as the rest of her.
I would say that I’ve been primarily a boob guy. But, over time, I have come to appreciate many forms of beauty. Especially when a person does their best with what they have and does so tastefully, confidently, and modestly. Yes, I realize beauty is in usually in the eye of the beholder. I notice beauty.
I wouldn’t say that my appreciation has changed much. I can look at my wife and mentally track changes in my mind, and yes, she looks different, but usually not older(sometimes when she is fatigued or in pain, she ages). Since the changes in her body happened gradually, she has always looked “right”. Obviously, I can look at pictures of a much younger her, and see the difference, but I can’t really do so in my mind. She has always looked right.
The one big change that I always notice, is that the last few years, she has become much more confident and self assured, and a lot less self conscious. That has led to a general change in the way she dresses, and I find it be very attractive.
Couple of things for me:
1. Her breasts. My wife had the smallest breasts of any woman I had been romantically attracted to. While I was attracted to pretty much anything from A to DD I was a bit concerned before marriage as I hadn’t seen breasts in the flesh before. My concerns were unwarranted.
I love it when she takes her bra off and her “fun-size” breasts come free. More often than not my hands are all over them. I love the feeling of their softness, the light touch of her nipples on my skin, the way they move when I thrust into her, etc.
One of things that I really like to do is take a breast and fill my mouth with it. Her small size means I can fit pretty much her entire breast in my mouth. Boy does that feel good.
It also doesn’t hurt that breast play is a critical part of her road to orgasm. Her breasts bring both of us great delight.
2. Her rear end. Like the OP I am a boob guy but once DW and I started doing doggy style I really started noticing the butt more. It is quite shapely, warm, and comfortable. When she puts it in a certain position it can be an instant erection for me.
I thank God for DW. God gave her to me. God is great. After telling God what I want He added those things I admire too. I like ladies with beautiful curves, shapes etc so God gave me one. Each time I see another lady, I remember I have a beautiful one I always play with. Thank God I admire the curves DW has and her butts and nice to behold.
When I was much younger I didn’t think I liked guys with hair on their chests, the smooth chests appealed to me more. For many years now I love dh’s hairy chest, I love the way it feels to snuggle up to, run my fingers through, and how masculine it looks. He’s also at my request had a beard for the last 5 years and I think he looks so hot with it, I never would have thought I’d be attracted to that when we first got married.
My husband is also a foot guy but apparently he’s always been one ever since we were dating and I’m just recently realizing how much of a foot guy he is!