My wife and I have been married for almost 12 years and we have 5 small children.
About 6 months ago I admitted to my wife that I have a porn addiction that has been ongoing sense I was a teenager. It was a very dramatic and terrible time but thanks to the healing nature of God’s forgiveness I have not looked at porn sense that day. After some counseling and mentoring my wife has healed and shown a Christlike forgiveness that has amazed even our counselor and closest friends. Our relationship is stronger now than it has ever been and I have only Christ to thank for it. My wife has always been a generous lover but our marriage bed has never been better than has the past 6 months.
I love getting on this blog to get inspiration on being a better husband and lover and I finally decided it was time to join the conversation to help others where I can and continue to bless my relationship with my wife.
You have a lot of similarities with us. Married 12.5 yr, four kids, and I confessed my porn addiction 7 months ago, though she did know I struggled with porn before we started dating. My DW (Zelda) also showed incredible forgiveness.
Hope you learn a lot here and can contribute to helping/serving others too!