Hello!

    I’ve known about TMB for years and love the info! I hadn’t joined in on the conversation earlier since I was single, but now that I’ve been married, I’m excited to ask questions. 

    What I hope to get out: sex is really hard for me, and I’m hoping I can learn how to make it easier/more enjoyable!

    Double bed Asked on December 3, 2019 in Introduce Yourself.
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      Welcome! Thanks for joining us and sharing a bit of your story.

      May you find helpful advice and support here and healing from the Lord!

      Under the stars Answered on December 3, 2019.
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        Welcome!  I know there are several women here, and husbands who are marrried to wives, who have a similar background. I have no doubt that you can find comfort and encouragement here as you seek answers and work to heal and grow.

        Under the stars Answered on December 3, 2019.
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          Welcome!  Hard for you physically, mentally?

          Fell out of ... Answered on December 3, 2019.
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            @SecondMarge No, I’m a female. My husband would appreciate the joke though 🙂

            @ALL_IN It’s both but mainly physical. I was sexually and emotionally abused years ago. This has caused problems with even attempting intercourse due to the physical pain. My husband is beyond supportive and reminds me that this was a concern we’d had before getting married — we just had no way of knowing it’d be this bad. I’ve been to doctors and counselors (even before we were married) but we recently moved and I haven’t found either in my area yet.

            Double bed Answered on December 3, 2019.
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              We’ll be praying for you

              Fell out of ... Answered on December 3, 2019.
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                Welcome, I hear your struggle and wish good things for you, both.

                Fell out of ... Answered on December 3, 2019.
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                  Hello, if you are male being hard is a good thing. They say if you start with a joke people will be more open to what you say after.

                  It is a very conservative site but they are willing to offer advice. So if you tell us more about you and your problem I bet you get plenty of opinions.

                  Queen bed Answered on December 3, 2019.
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