I’ve known about TMB for years and love the info! I hadn’t joined in on the conversation earlier since I was single, but now that I’ve been married, I’m excited to ask questions.
What I hope to get out: sex is really hard for me, and I’m hoping I can learn how to make it easier/more enjoyable!
@SecondMarge No, I’m a female. My husband would appreciate the joke though 🙂
@ALL_IN It’s both but mainly physical. I was sexually and emotionally abused years ago. This has caused problems with even attempting intercourse due to the physical pain. My husband is beyond supportive and reminds me that this was a concern we’d had before getting married — we just had no way of knowing it’d be this bad. I’ve been to doctors and counselors (even before we were married) but we recently moved and I haven’t found either in my area yet.
Hello, if you are male being hard is a good thing. They say if you start with a joke people will be more open to what you say after.
It is a very conservative site but they are willing to offer advice. So if you tell us more about you and your problem I bet you get plenty of opinions.