Ever try and use this?
My DW really enjoys any position of rear entry PIV. With that in mind, I decided to surprise her with a Liberator Doggy-style Rider (a soft pad/belt with nylon holding strap on each side). While we have some pillows, I wasn’t sure her response because I didn’t know if she feel it was a little too “kinky”.
So I gave it to her and we pulled it out to use it while we were making love and she wanted me to stand behind her. SHE LOVED IT!!!! 🔥😍🔥😍🔥😍🔥 Her comment was it puts pressure on her front side and of course, gives me more leverage than just grabbing her hips. Apparently it was money well spent. 👍🏻
If you wanted to try to try something like it without buying it for now, I guess you might be able to try using a large towel around the waist, having the man hold it and stand behind during LM.
We are interested in this. Biggest question we have: is there is still room for easy access to put a small vibe on her during PIV? It would be held in place by her hand.
Also of note: Married Dance no longer carries this product (I confirmed with an e-mail to them). That’s too bad, as they had a great price when I saw it this fall. Covenant Spice doesn’t carry it either, though I don’t know if they ever did. Liberator’s website is pretty much softcore porn, so we’d prefer not to directly purchase from them and condone that, grr. 😡
Another similar product is the Saffron Love Strap, which is advertised for both use by the man during doggy and use by the woman during missionary (she uses it to pull down on her husbands butt while he thrusts). Definitely pricey though. 🙁
Yes, there’s still room for that. You could just call them up and order it rather than looking on the site. I understand your trepidation.
You can also look on Amazon or Ebay but I can’t tell you what the quality is like vs Liberator, I can say you’ll find something a little cheaper.
Okay, so we gave it a go–tried it twice now.
No major positives or negatives. Zelda did not have the reaction of your DW, but no strong negatives either. The only small negative is that there is a rough patch on the strap near the right handle that can do some light scratching if we’re not careful. Our main worries of the strap getting in the way of the vibe or being uncomfortable on her did not happen. In fact, she hardly felt the strap on her front at all.
My take was that it allowed for somewhat more controlled thrusting and helped with achieving slightly more powerful thrusts that give deeper penetration. Downsides were that my arms started getting tired from that after a while and more importantly that I missed my hands on my wife’s skin. I just kept seeing her back and backside and thinking “wow I need to grab that”. Thankfully, it’s easy enough to let go of the strap and keep going without. Also the firmer/deeper thrusts aren’t a guaranteed positive, especially earlier in a session.
So the jury’s still out on this one. I think it would be fun to use occasionally, and it’s about the only “kinky” thing we do/have tried. Where I see it being most useful is after she O’s, where deep penetration is going to be very welcomed and I have free reign to ascend to my own O with powerful thrusting if desired.
ETA: We have only used this with normal “doggy” and not a standing position like Man on Fire.