Ever try and use this?

    My DW really enjoys any position of rear entry PIV. With that in mind, I decided to surprise her with a Liberator Doggy-style Rider (a soft pad/belt with nylon holding strap on each side).  While we have some pillows, I wasn’t sure her response because I didn’t know if she feel it was a little too “kinky”.


    So I gave it to her and we pulled it out to use it while we were making love and she wanted me to stand behind her. SHE LOVED IT!!!! 🔥😍🔥😍🔥😍🔥 Her comment was it puts pressure on her front side and of course, gives me more leverage than just grabbing her hips. Apparently it was money well spent. 👍🏻


    If you wanted to try to try something like it without buying it for now, I guess you might be able to try using a large towel around the waist, having the man hold it and stand behind during LM.

    Under the stars Asked on September 8, 2019 in Activities & Items .
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      Tnanks so much for the suggestion. We’ll give it a try!

      Fell out of ... Answered on September 8, 2019.
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        Great to hear. Is there a link to what the Liberator doggy-style rider looks like?

        Queen bed Answered on September 11, 2019.

        Headliner, I described it a little in my original post.  It is a soft pad, which is place on/around the belly, with nylon straps coming off on each side with loops on the end for one to grasp and pull your partner towards you. Imagine one taking a belt or towel and placing it around your partner’s waist, holding it on the ends of the belt/towel, and then making love from behind. That’s the design and purpose to pull your partner tight/close.  I’m not going to post a link but one can find  on various sites, as to how they compare with the Liberator product in design/comfort. I’m not sure. I can only speak for what we have…and DW loves how it feels on her.

        on September 11, 2019.
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          I like that position because of the angle. My wife doesn’t because to her it feels impersonal. But now you’ve got me intrigued. I may have to look into this

          Queen bed Answered on September 14, 2019.

          Yes, it can sometimes. I personally like the view. Have you tried using a mirror in front of both of you? The other thing is that the wife can turn her head. A well position mirror is a nice turn on and allows face to face interaction.

          on September 14, 2019.

          Will maybe need to try that.  Thought about mirrors before.

          on October 5, 2019.
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            Will have to check that out. Thanks for sharing.

            On the floor Answered on September 16, 2019.
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              We are interested in this. Biggest question we have: is there is still room for easy access to put a small vibe on her during PIV? It would be held in place by her hand.

              Also of note: Married Dance no longer carries this product (I confirmed with an e-mail to them). That’s too bad, as they had a great price when I saw it this fall.  Covenant Spice doesn’t carry it either, though I don’t know if they ever did. Liberator’s website is pretty much softcore porn, so we’d prefer not to directly purchase from them and condone that, grr. 😡

              Another similar product is the Saffron Love Strap, which is advertised for both use by the man during doggy and use by the woman during missionary (she uses it to pull down on her husbands butt while he thrusts). Definitely pricey though. 🙁

              Under the stars Answered on November 30, 2019.
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                Yes, there’s still room for that.  You could just call them up and order it rather than looking on the site.  I understand your trepidation.

                You can also look on Amazon or Ebay but I can’t tell you what the quality is like vs Liberator, I can say you’ll find something a little cheaper.

                Under the stars Answered on November 30, 2019.
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                  Okay, so we gave it a go–tried it twice now.

                  No major positives or negatives. Zelda did not have the reaction of your DW, but no strong negatives either. The only small negative is that there is a rough patch on the strap near the right handle that can do some light scratching if we’re not careful. Our main worries of the strap getting in the way of the vibe or being uncomfortable on her did not happen. In fact, she hardly felt the strap on her front at all.

                  My take was that it allowed for somewhat more controlled thrusting and helped with achieving slightly more powerful thrusts that give deeper penetration. Downsides were that my arms started getting tired from that after a while and more importantly that I missed my hands on my wife’s skin. I just kept seeing her back and backside and thinking “wow I need to grab that”. Thankfully, it’s easy enough to let go of the strap and keep going without. Also the firmer/deeper thrusts aren’t a guaranteed positive, especially earlier in a session.

                  So the jury’s still out on this one. I think it would be fun to use occasionally, and it’s about the only “kinky” thing we do/have tried. Where I see it being most useful is after she O’s, where deep penetration is going to be very welcomed and I have free reign to ascend to my own O with powerful thrusting if desired.


                  ETA: We have only used this with normal “doggy” and not a standing position like Man on Fire.

                  Under the stars Answered on January 7, 2020.
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                    We’ve only used it in the standing/bent over the bed or chair and as far as I can remember, wife has O’d and just wants me inside and deep and/or a quickie and she just wants to feel that “raw desire” between us.

                    Under the stars Answered on January 7, 2020.
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