How common is AS?

    So I was looking at some nationally representative data from the U.S., and it appears that anal sex is more common among heterosexual couples in their twenties and thirties (although all age catgeories engaged in anal sex to some degree). Maybe sterotypical, but my guess is that, on average, men want to participate in anal sex more than women do, as evidence suggests that anal sex can be uncomortable (and even painful) for many women. So I have 3 questions:

    (1) Do you engage in anal sex (yes/no)?

    (2) For those who answered yes, how often do you have anal sex ?

    (2) For those who answered yes, is it pleasurable for the woman?

     

    Haha, still trying to learn and navigate this website.

    on April 18, 2019.
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      (1) Yes

      (2) It has varied throughout our relationship. There have been years with none, to 1-3 times a month, to a few times a year.

      (3) Yes, otherwise we wouldn’t practice it.

       

       

      Under the stars Answered on April 18, 2019.

      For #3, I thought that perhaps some women might engage in AS more for their husband since she might get little pleasure out of it.

      on April 18, 2019.

      That could be, I was speaking for us personally as a couple. There are times where we do engage more for his sake, but that wouldn’t even be a possibility if I had never experiencd pleasure from it, or know that I can/will.

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        (1) Do you engage in anal sex (yes/no)? Yes

        (2) For those who answered yes, how often do you have anal sex ? It varies, probably averaging 1 or 2 times a month.

        (2) For those who answered yes, is it pleasurable for the woman? Yes, my wife finds it quite enjoyable and exciting.  Actually, she was the first to suggest it.  Up until about 6 months ago we had never discussed it, but one evening she asked if I’d like to try it.  She seemed excited by the prospect so I agreed to.   It has been a pleasurable path for both of us.

        California King Answered on May 8, 2019.
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          I guess I never answered my own questions so here are mine:

          (1) Yes

          (2) About 2X per month

          (3) My wife says yes but she has to be really in the mood for it

          Queen bed Answered on April 18, 2019.
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            (1) Do you engage in anal sex (yes/no)? yes

            (2) For those who answered yes, how often do you have anal sex ? varies I’d say it ranges from 1-2 times a month at the most frequent to once every 3ish months at the  least frequent

            (2) For those who answered yes, is it pleasurable for the woman? yes 

            On the floor Answered on April 18, 2019.
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              1. Yes
              2. Only started trying in the last year, and we have successfully had AS twice.
              3. Yes, very. Otherwise I wouldn’t have suggested it to DH 🙂 It takes a certain mood though…

              Queen bed Answered on April 18, 2019.
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                No afraid to honestly

                Cot Answered on April 19, 2019.
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                  No

                  On the floor Answered on April 18, 2019.
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                    No

                    Twin bed Answered on April 18, 2019.
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                      (1) Do you engage in anal sex (yes/no)? No.

                      (2) For those who answered yes, how often do you have anal sex ?

                      (2) For those who answered yes, is it pleasurable for the woman?

                      Under the stars Answered on April 18, 2019.
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                        No, I am interested in trying it as well as pegging.

                        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on April 18, 2019.

                        How does your DW feel about pegging?

                        on April 18, 2019.

                        Never brought it up actually…

                        on April 19, 2019.
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