How do you move close to and during orgasm/ejaculation

    How do you move your hips/thrust when you get close to orgasm and during orgasm/ejaculation? Do you continue thrusting? Do you push in deep? Do you hold still? Do you like to orgasm with the penis deep or shallow?

    When I get close my hips kind of move on autopilot with long and deep thrusts. As I pass PONR I instinctively thrust in deep, press tightly against DW and hold still to feel the orgasm come and enjoy the pleasurable contractions and pulsing as I ejaculate as deep as possible inside her.

    DW want me deep and pressed tight and grinding against her vulva mixed with occasional long thrusts as she is working up towards orgasm. She does a thrusting motion with her hips against me as well. A short while before she orgasm she kind of pull her hips away a little and then as she orgasm she thrust her hips hard forward again to get me as deep and tight against her as possible and to continue to grind against her through her orgasm.

    Queen bed Asked on December 13, 2019 in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.
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      We engage in ‘she comes first,’ so when it’s my turn Mrs. Oldbear and I focus on how to continue her pleasure as we maximize mine. I gently thrust and she grinds rhythmically (our hands and mouths stay busy) to bring me to the PONR. When I go over the top she pulls me deep into her as I drive deeply into her. We are motionless during my orgasm, enjoying our mutual sensations. We’ll remain embraced, relishing the intimacy and then gradually disengage. As we bask in our afterglow, we caress each other, whisper our love, and I’ll pray for our kids/grandkids and for the Lord to bless our marriage. Then we are off to blissful sleep.

      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on December 13, 2019.
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        It depends on position. Most of our sex is in doggy style and I tend to thrust hard and fast once PONR is reached. There is just a primal imperative to finish things off with maximum stimulation. Lately I have tried going long, deep, and slow during an O and it has been quite enjoyable.

        In WOT my penis is deep inside the vagina and I either sit still or slightly grind. The pressure of DW on top of me makes for a very enjoyable O.

        On the floor Answered on December 14, 2019.
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          I will be watching this thread closely, as it’s something I’ve been curious about since we only recently got my DW (Zelda) O’ing, and I’d like to know if there are things that women do that make it more pleasurable that we haven’t tried yet. I also tried something different the last few times and she really seemed to like it. 🙂 Was considering asking a similar question.

          However, we may or may not describe what we do–need to discuss with Zelda and agree upon what we’re willing to share about these kind of intimate details in an anonymous environment.

          Also, I’d be curious to know what non-pelvic things others do, such as scratching fingernails over their spouse’s back/sides, nipple play, butt squeezes, etc. Anything within reason that might make it more pleasurable for Zelda (and me LOL) would be awesome!

          -Scott

          Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on December 13, 2019.
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            Depends on the situation: position…how stimulated/turned on I am…how turned on wife is…alone in the house…how long it’s been dice previous orgasm….

            All those things have an impact on whether I thrust…harder…or stop and enjoy.

            Under the stars Answered on December 13, 2019.
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              Normally it’s “ladies first” for us, as DW can’t orgasm by PIV alone. Afterwards I tend to use deep thrusts to bring myself to PONR, then I push in really deep, I hold on to the feeling of being near climax and then I have small, barely noticeable thrusts for each spurt.

              California King Answered on December 14, 2019.
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                When PIV is planned, we make sure DW comes first. Once she has had her O (via a wand toy), we proceed quickly to PIV (missionary position) and she likes it when I grab her butt and thrust fast. During my O, I usually stop thrusting and go as deep into her as I can for maximum closeness. I love that intimacy of holding her tight while I finish.

                On the floor Answered on December 16, 2019.
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                  Great question.  For us it depends on the mood and position.  If I am on top, as I get to the PONR, I will speed up and thrust deep because I want to fill her up as much as I can, breathing gets heavier/faster and a bit louder as well.  Sometimes she will pinch my nipples and at other times I like her to suck a nipple hard as that adds to the sensation of my O.  If she is on top in reverse cowgirl I like to squeeze her butt while she’s thrusting on top.  In cowgirl position, I will sometimes hold her hips to keep her thrusting going or at times I will fondle her breasts.  As we rarely have a simultaneous O (she is very particular), she lies pretty still, but when she does O she tends to reach a point where too much stimulation becomes an irritant.  She’ll reach down and put her hand on her vagina as the sign to stop.

                  On the floor Answered on March 30, 2020.
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                    My wife doesn’t want me to slow down during sex as I’m getting close, so I keep thrusting fast and hard.

                    Queen bed Answered on December 13, 2019.
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                      I try to just be my natural self and go with whatever movements I’m feeling in the moment, so it’s a bit different each time, like when you hear a jazzy tune live its never quite the same. Sex is an intimate dance and one of life’s greatest forms of freedom and self-expression when done lovingly. I just enjoy it and go with whatever feels right (Within the boundaries of scripture and mutually building each other up: see Ephesians 4:29) and let my body, emotions, and motions expresses love and honor and appreciation for my lady.

                      Besides, if it’s too planned or predictable, it’s not quite as exciting and fun as when there’s no script (IMO).

                      Queen bed Answered on December 13, 2019.
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                        I think our reproductive systems are hardwired to try to get the sperm as close to the womb as possible, thus the impulse to thrust deeply.

                        Under the stars Answered on December 18, 2019.
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