How many times

    My wife and I enjoy anal sex, we started off with once every couple of weeks. Now every time we have sex my wife asks for anal, I’m not complaining  just interested to know if other women enjoy it on a regular basis

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      We do this every once in a while. I’m too large (according to her) for full penetration, but we’ll do partial penetration sometimes, if she’s up for it. She loves other types of stimulation there frequently, nearly every time we make love.

      Fell out of ... Answered on November 1, 2020.
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        My wife is an absolute NO – no touching, no play, no plugs, no penis. Tried it once and she did not like it. I don’t see that ever changing, so no pushing or persisting. If it ever happens again, she will initiate.

        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on September 2, 2020.

        Mine too… except she never allowed us to try it even once.

        on September 2, 2020.

        @JLoydH – This isn’t just directed at you, but your comment did prompt this thought:

        Is it ok for a woman to say, no, I don’t want to have something inserted in my anus (be it a finger, a penis, a plug, whatever)? Is it ok for her to say this, even without having tried it once?

        These days, it seems expected that women try anal. And if she’s not interested in trying, that is often viewed negatively by the husband (perhaps because he feels he’s missing out?). Shouldn’t it be ok for her to say no thanks?

        on September 2, 2020.

        @MQ:

        Just saw your comment. My answer would be it is okay for her to say “no thanks”. My interpretation of 1 Cor 7 is that the husband/wife should not deprive the other of sex in general, not specific acts. Thus, keeping certain things as hard “no” is Biblically ok, whether that be AS, AP, a certain position, OS, etc.

        That said, I think for either spouse to be completely closed off to all but the narrowest things (PIV starfish and/or missionary, for instance) could start to encroach on being unloving, and the way the rejection is given could also be disrespectful. In the end, spouses that reject all but the most “vanilla” stuff are probably keeping their MB from being all it can/should be. Certainly there are times (such as sexual abuse) where this needs to be discussed carefully, but even in those cases there can be ways to expand where both spouses can embrace it.

        -Scott

        on September 9, 2020.

        I would compare the penal/anal penetration “hard no” to the slapping of my balls “hard no”. Sure, I understand some men get off on having their balls slapped. But NO, I don’t want to ever try it. She can tug on them, cuddle them, tickle them, lick them, even jostle and squeeze them a little.  Slapping? HARD NO!

        Does that change your perspective guys?

        on September 9, 2020.
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          My wife likes this too she rocks we probly do 1 to 4 times a month

          Double bed Answered on September 8, 2020.
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            I do as well enjoy, it changes things up! We use the zoro with a little vibrator.  Usually forget to turn it on though. Lol

            Twin bed Answered on September 8, 2020.

            When I searched the internet for zoro vibrator I got commercial industrial vibrators (non sexual) and it cracked me up. Obviously I have no clue what zoro is. Can you share more?

            on September 11, 2020.

            The zoro it’s self is not a vibrator.  It has a pocket for a vibrator if you choose to use that option. We originally found it onTMB.  I will see  what I can find and get back to you.

            on September 14, 2020.
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              Everyone one is different and unique. Enjoy it and make as much enjoyable to receiver.
              My DW gets great O from it.

              Twin bed Answered on September 11, 2020.
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                So far we have just tried AS once and it was ok. I was the one interested in AS and took some time and patience to bring him around to it. I currently enjoy anal play but I don’t feel comfortable with it unless I am freshly showered and recently gone to the bathroom. I would like to explore more but sex in general isn’t something that happens much.

                Twin bed Answered on September 11, 2020.
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                  Queen bed Answered on November 12, 2020.
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                    My husband and I have had AS several times but I just don’t enjoy it. I have tried to like it, but it hurts no matter how much lube we use or how much I try to relax.

                    Cot Answered 10 mins ago.
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