Husbands, does your wife perform oral sex?

    Does she do it to completion? Does it matter to you if she does or not? Does it matter to you if she swallows?

     

    As for MY answer, i do perform OS on my husband every time we have sex, i honestly don’t see the big deal in doing it BUT… we ALWAYS shower before sex so there is never an issue (honestly only issue i have with it is that i don’t think i do it very well).

    I DO do it to completion even though i really do not like it, just because i want to bless him and like i’ve mentioned before in a previous post, i can imagine how great it would feel if i were a man.  My husband knows and is OK with that i deposit it into a kleenex, it’s just too much for me to swallow and it doesn’t bother him, i think he’s just glad to be blessed that way.

    One time we were ML and deciding on how to finish (which was PIV, i usually give OS to completion for him about 30% of the time or more) he sheepishly said is favorite way to finish is OS and said  he was sorry. I suppose i could have taken offense but decided not to because i know he didn’t mean it that way.

    Blanket on a secluded beach! Asked on June 22, 2019 in Oral Sex.

    For me no. As a teen she heard too many horror stories of women being coerced into it so she says she is “uncomfortable” with it. Of the three times in 30 years of marriage that she did so, it was very light feeling and she wore herself out trying to get me there and kept telling me not to finish in her mouth, but if you survey couples, many women have the same opinion, so I understand. I guess you should be commended for pleasing him. My wife simply has believed for years that how a man is pleased, does not matter. Which leaves mostly 2 sex acts. Lately as she has tried to improve things in our bed so it’s been more fulfilling.

    15 hours ago.
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      The Mrs will give OS, but the only time I can finish in her mouth is if I wear a condom. For me it is rather important to be accepted in her mouth.

      Queen bed Answered on July 1, 2019.
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        My DW has performed oral to completion (including swallowing) from the first week of our marriage over 20 years ago. We don’t always choose this, but it definitely happens just about as often as I want it. It’s a bit of a chore for her, so I try to be sensitive about asking for it, but she gets pleasure from it and usually gets turned on enough that she also wants an orgasm when I’m done, or masturbates herself during the act.

        California King Answered on July 8, 2019.
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          No. Yes. I would be delighted either way.

          Fell out of ... Answered on June 22, 2019.
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            Yes, my wife performs it for me.  She actually enjoys doing it.  It is a big part of our MB. Most times it is a part of foreplay.  About 30% of the time she does it to completion.  It’s very meaningful to both of us.  She loves it when I complete.  She is very aroused by it.  I’m very honored by the fact that she does this with a heart to serve me.  I’m truly blessed and I let her know how much I appreciate it.   The emotional connection that I have with her after this act is an added benefit that we both enjoy.

            Queen bed Answered on June 22, 2019.
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              Never ever except in my dreams. The last time she offered was on my 23rd birthday a few months before we got married. I told her no, let’s wait until after the wedding. Still waiting.

              Fell out of ... Answered on June 22, 2019.
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                Yes, she does it to completion. It matters a lot to me and is very meaningful that she does.  Also, swallowing is important to me.

                Under the stars Answered on June 22, 2019.
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                  Never have I experienced OS in our nearly 50 years of marriage – perfectly delighted with our marriage bed!

                  Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on June 22, 2019.
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                    My wife is stellar at OS and blesses me with it very, very often.  I’d say we’re somewhere around 30-40% or so of the times going to completion because our OS is usually a component of the overall love making experience.  On the occasions she works me to completion most of the time she swallows, but not every time.  Swallowing isn’t that big of a deal for for me.  It’s whatever she’s comfortable with at the time.  As to its importance to me, as I said, her technique is stellar.  So good I joke she could easily turn pro :).  As such, I would really miss it should she decide to stop so, yeah, pretty important.

                    California King Answered on June 23, 2019.
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                      No, my wife will not engage in OS in any way, shape or form. Giving or receiving.

                      Double bed Answered on June 23, 2019.
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                        She applies oral sex liberally as she knows how good she makes me feel when she does. Sometimes it’s to completion if she is already satisfied but often not as she desires PIV thereafter.

                        I don’t care if she swallows my ejaculate or spits it out as I’m too satisfied to care at that point. She does some of both though.

                        Fell out of ... Answered on June 23, 2019.
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