instant orgasm

I won’t say I would never try it. However, it would short cut all the anticipation and the joy of participation of the real thing. No relationship in that at all.

No. I can’t see how that would be good for marital sexual intimacy. Like @Peter said, it would take away from the anticipation and enjoyment of sexual intimacy between husband and wife. I can see how it could look like a good option for some, especially if the real deal isn’t happening, but I just have trouble seeing how it wouldn’t work against marital intimacy.

From the question it sounds like it’s already on the arm….yes, I would use it. Since I have a somewhat similar refractory time as a man, I probably wouldn’t do much different than I already do, enjoy the sexual pleasure and then orgasm. But I would probably experience with some multiples. I have no clue how often.

I have heard the same argument already shared used about vibrators. I use one of those too to help with orgasming.

Only occasionally. I feel like it would rob DW of foreplay, intimacy, and anticipation.  And yes, it would be a loss to me. So, I wouldn’t do it often. But, there might be times it would be fun or even useful – another type of quickie perhaps.

I’d rather have one for my wife. Doesn’t Staples have an “easy” button for that?

– Feeling stressed babe? Let me help! 😀

– On the phone with your parents? Hehehe!!!  😀

Now to your original question, I think I’d be tempted to on occasion under stress and when the wife wasn’t available to hit the “easy” button.

I would just be worried I’d wear the batteries out…

Nope. While the “destination” is delightful sex is more about the journey for me. An instant O would take away from that.

I would not use it, but given the difficulty my DW has in achieving an “O”  I would certainly consider using it for those times when the wand did not do the ‘trick’.

No for me.
Huge yes on one for DW. She can reliably get an O thru manual sex from me, but it would be great fun if she could get there other ways. I can see it now… she’s looking bored with regular old PIV…just punch the button and wow! I can’t even imagine the fun we’d have.

This post reminded me of something I found interesting several years ago. In all the years I’ve been reading marriage/sex forums and blogs I’ve only seen ONE man complain that his wife orgasmed too easily. He felt cheated because she got there within a minute or two of regular PIV every time! Would be a dream wife for anyone who’s ever struggled with PE. You have to just shake your head at how mismatched we can seem to be at times.