instant orgasm

    If you had a button on your arm that would give you an instant orgasm, would you use it, and if so, how often?

    Twin bed Asked on November 23, 2020 in Activities & Items .
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      I won’t say I would never try it. However, it would short cut all the anticipation and the joy of participation of the real thing. No relationship in that at all.

      Twin bed Answered on November 23, 2020.
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        No. I can’t see how that would be good for marital sexual intimacy. Like @Peter said, it would take away from the anticipation and enjoyment of sexual intimacy between husband and wife. I can see how it could look like a good option for some, especially if the real deal isn’t happening, but I just have trouble seeing how it wouldn’t work against marital intimacy.

        California King Answered on November 23, 2020.
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          From the question it sounds like it’s already on the arm….yes, I would use it. Since I have a somewhat similar refractory time as a man, I probably wouldn’t do much different than I already do, enjoy the sexual pleasure and then orgasm. But I would probably experience with some multiples. I have no clue how often.

          I have heard the same argument already shared used about vibrators. I use one of those too to help with orgasming.

          Under the stars Answered on November 23, 2020.
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            Only occasionally. I feel like it would rob DW of foreplay, intimacy, and anticipation.  And yes, it would be a loss to me. So, I wouldn’t do it often. But, there might be times it would be fun or even useful – another type of quickie perhaps.

            Under the stars Answered on November 23, 2020.
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              I’d rather have one for my wife. Doesn’t Staples have an “easy” button for that?

              – Feeling stressed babe? Let me help! 😀

              – On the phone with your parents? Hehehe!!!  😀

              Now to your original question, I think I’d be tempted to on occasion under stress and when the wife wasn’t available to hit the “easy” button.

              Under the stars Answered on November 23, 2020.
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                I would just be worried I’d wear the batteries out…

                Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on November 24, 2020.

                LOL!!!

                on November 24, 2020.
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                  Nope. While the “destination” is delightful sex is more about the journey for me. An instant O would take away from that.

                  On the floor Answered on November 24, 2020.
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                    I would not use it, but given the difficulty my DW has in achieving an “O”  I would certainly consider using it for those times when the wand did not do the ‘trick’.

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on November 24, 2020.
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                      No for me.
                      Huge yes on one for DW. She can reliably get an O thru manual sex from me, but it would be great fun if she could get there other ways. I can see it now… she’s looking bored with regular old PIV…just punch the button and wow! I can’t even imagine the fun we’d have.

                      On the floor Answered on November 24, 2020.
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                        This post reminded me of something I found interesting several years ago. In all the years I’ve been reading marriage/sex forums and blogs I’ve only seen ONE man complain that his wife orgasmed too easily. He felt cheated because she got there within a minute or two of regular PIV every time! Would be a dream wife for anyone who’s ever struggled with PE. You have to just shake your head at how mismatched we can seem to be at times.

                        On the floor Answered on November 24, 2020.

                        I can definitely see why that man would feel that way. Zelda had a smooth/fast ascent and popped after just 4 minutes of PIV+vibe recently. If we hadn’t continued for another one, I’d have felt cheated too! It was bizarre for it to happen so fast.

                        -Scott

                        on November 24, 2020.
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