Introducing myself

    I. was very active on this site from 2012-2015 or so.  I thought I’d check back in and see how things are going.  I’m married to TxTwinMom for 36 years.  She went through a sexual awakening in 2012.  Our marriage was happy, but sex had always been a battleground of sorts.  Nothing terrible, just not what it should be.  During parts  2012&13 we went on an intentional marathon.  Having sex daily for a year.  That was a game changer for us.  At her request we have a D/s relationship both in and out of the bedroom.  For us, this is very natural and positive.  I’ll probably do some hanging out in the  Not So Common section mostly.  We are pretty adventurous..  TxTwinMom may reopen her account as well.

    I am a Christian.  Texas Baptist by denomination.  A church leader, deacon, Bible study teacher, singer and what ever else  I need to be to keep the ministry moving forward.

    Double bed Asked on July 22, 2019 in Introduce Yourself.
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      It’s so good to see you again! I have often wondered how you guys were doing, the downside of anonymity. 😉 You would be a great resource here. I know I could pepper you with questions, but I will restrain myself. 🙂 Hope you and your family are well!

      Under the stars Answered on July 22, 2019.
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        Glad to have you back!

        On the floor Answered on July 22, 2019.
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          I’m so glad to see you here! I’ve often wondered how you and TxTwinMom were doing. I haven’t been posting here much, but I’m really glad I checked in to see you!

          Queen bed Answered on July 22, 2019.
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            Welcome back! Glad to see you back here!

            California King Answered on July 22, 2019.
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              Thanks everyone.  We are doing great.  We have two wonderful grandchildren now.  We’ve gotten very involved in fitness through good nutrition and exercise in the past year and a half.  My 15 YO son is currently learning to drive right now.  This is great for your prayer life.

              Double bed Answered on July 22, 2019.

              It’s great to hear! I would love to hear more about your guys journey to get where you are in your D/s relationship. Has much of this happened post your activity on TMB?

              on July 22, 2019.

              Well, yes and no.  If you remember, in 2012, my wife had told me whatever the request is the answer is yes.  She said this because she no longer wished to be a gate keeper and trusted me and my leadership.  We didn’t really realize at the time, but this was really the beginning of our D/s journey.  About 2 years ago she realized that while we had sort of accidentally fallen into a D/s relationship, it was what she wanted and she wanted more of it.  It took me a bit to accept.  I was big on wanting an egalitarian style marriage.  However after much discussion, I also realized that while it didn’t quite fit in to my mental picture of our marriage we were almost there already AND it was something she really needed.  So we formalized and moved into that new aspect of our marriage.  She struggles with submission sometimes, but is happiest when she gets it right.  She wears a symbolic collar at all times as a reminder to herself.  Not that anyone else would recognize it as such.  And calls me sir, finding ways to serve me and demonstrate her submission.  We have a system to regularly step out of the D/s roles and talk about either of our needs that are not being met and course changes we need to make.  It has been extremely positive for us and we are much more in accord in our marriage.

              on July 23, 2019.

              Thanks for sharing!

              on July 23, 2019.
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                “My 15 YO son is currently learning to drive right now. This is great for your prayer life.”

                LOL. I have a 13 year old. I’m not there yet and already praying!! Prayers for you and your son on this transition of life and responsibility.

                King bed Answered on July 22, 2019.
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                  Welcome! Nice to have you back on board with us!!

                  Under the stars Answered on July 22, 2019.
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                    Welcome back!

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on July 23, 2019.
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                      Welcome back

                      King bed Answered on July 23, 2019.
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                        Welcome back!

                        Queen bed Answered on July 23, 2019.
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