Is this a common problem?
I need some advice. I want to be able to give my husband blow jobs, but the immediate problem is I have a small mouth. Even my teeth don’t all fit; I have two teeth on top and on bottom that overlap other teeth because of this. Gag reflex aside, I feel like any movement would hurt him, because my teeth are worn/sharp and my jaw cant go any wider. Has anyone else dealt with this? What did you do to solve this problem?
Good on you for wanting to please your husband. Your problem isn’t uncommon. Have you tried the “playing the flute” position? At least that’s what we call it in our house. lol!
Have your DH lie on his back on your bed and kneel beside him or on the floor (depending on what works best for you) at a 90 degree angle. Then use your puckered and pursed lips and/or tongue to stroke his penis top to bottom – with a back and forth motion – similar to how a flutist would move along the shaft of the flute.
Your saliva will work well as lube. You can open your mouth more or less to explore what works best for him and is most comfortable for you. Be sure to give plenty of attention to his frenulum and suck as much of his glans as you are able. You may want to stabilize things with one of your hands at the base of his penis or stimulate his testicles and anal area. If you have long hair, you may want to tie it back. As you move toward his glans, tilt your head toward his face so that you can make eye contact with him. When you bring him to climax, you should decide if you will take his ejaculate into your mouth and/or swallow or otherwise.
I hope you find this helpful.
Licking and kissing can do the trick without actually putting much of the penis in your mouth. Think handjob plus licking. Focus the licking on the frenulum (the sensitive spot just below the head of the penis in the front – it’s the male equivalent to the clitoris) and you can absolutely give an orgasm that way.
I don’t know whether this is a common problem or not, but many women do seem to have difficulty performing oral sex.
Maybe you should start not by putting your husband’s penis in you mouth, but by using your mouth to explore his genitals – kissing and licking the area. Do it as part of foreplay, and gradually build up to putting his penis in your mouth. Hopefully, this will reduce the pressure and make it easier for you both to relax and enjoy it.
How quickly does he become erect? Maybe you could have it in your mouth just to get it started then once it starts to grow, switch to licking and kissing the head and shaft. I love the feeling of my hubby growing from soft to hard in my mouth. You could try it, but just be careful if he is a quick grower. 😛
My wife also has a very small mouth; she also often says her teeth don’t fit. The solution we seem to have settled on is basically just a lack of oral sex. She doesn’t especially like giving or receiving it, anyways, and there isn’t really any motivation for me to push for it. On the occasion that she does get her mouth involved, it’s mostly licking and nibbling, which is enjoyed more for the thoughtfulness than the sensation, of course.
Besides the previous mentioned ideas, you could get a mini stroker to add to the mix with kissing and licking. They usually have some type of texture which would be different than using your hand. While the mouth is nice, in my opinion, it’s more about the love and attention you express by loving on your husband’s penis.
My wife used to say the same about the size of her mouth. She felt it was particularly small. She worked at OS and its worked out great for us.
Hope you’re making some progress for your ever so kind goal. The use of the tongue and lips around the head and its underside, with some hand massage further down the shaft of penis I’m sure would be extremely effective and enjoyable for your husband.
The whole organ doesn’t need to be inside, but as the head is very sensitive, your tongue and lips will be amazing and lovely for him.