Is this really a no judgement place?

    Just looking for advice I guess. Want to be married but my dad and pawpaw say don’t do it, we should stay as a family we all we got. My momma on drugs so…yeah. ladies please don’t message me I get enough drama and lies told on me at work. I found this guy but he wants to move to the beach and my dad said  I way so I’m not sure what to do. I don’t wanna leave my dad and pawpaw they taught me so much but I love my boyfriend to but they all don’t get along.

    Cot Asked on April 10, 2019 in SINGLE.
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      You don’t mention how old you are or if you and your boyfriend are ready for marriage.

      That said, a part of growing up is about making adult decisions and building an adult life. It may mean staying near your family of origin or it may mean moving away. As you become an adult your relationship begins to change with your parents/siblings/grandparents. You still love them (and should listen to their wisdom), but more and more you need to make the decisions for your life.

      If they don’t like your boyfriend, I would encourage you to ask them why. Perhaps it is just wanting to hold onto you, but it may be that they see something you do not. Marriage is for life and you want to choose carefully.

      King bed Answered on April 10, 2019.
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        I 2nd LoriB, but also want to add not to jump for the first guy who shows interest. Wait for love and respect.

        Queen bed Answered on April 10, 2019.
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