Is your spouse here?
Recently the spouse of another member joined up. I seem to recall on the previous format that there was an option to label your profile as a couple rather than an individual. It got me wondering, are there many couples here, either as a single profile or as different users? Or does your spouse interact with the boards at all? Do they know you’re here?
Mine is not here, although I have told him he could join. The old boards were more of “my place”, especially in the beginning and towards the end…so even when he had interest in joining, he didn’t for my sake..
He definitely knows about it and we talk about it quite often. One of his common questions to me is, “Is there anything interesting happening on TMB?”
No, my DW doesn’t participate here (or even lurk AFAIK) despite my several suggestions over the past few years that she do. She thinks our MB is only to be discussed between us. She spends a LOT of time on FB so she isn’t averse to being in an OL community.
My DH joined shortly after I did, and we also share all PMs with each other as well, both for transparency and fun. We are both very invested in making our LM as glorious as it can be! (But I have spent a lot more time on the board so far because often it’s about all I’ve had enough energy for, and DH tends to be more reserved.)