Just saying hi!!
I joined and commented (but mostly lurked) on the TMB forum page years ago. I joined and tried to learn more because I was a withholder. There was a lot in my past that I had no control over that caused me to be that way, a guarded person expecting the worst from my spouse or practically anyone I “should” trust. I’m not 100% better, but I am better now. I’m back because TMB was a part of what got me thinking. I changed some of my more harmful thoughts through messages on TMB. I’m grateful that we can share hardships and our questions, but I’m ever presently aware that the enemy is out there actively pursuing the demise of anything deemed Holy, including a loving and wholesome marriage. Hope I can continue to grow and share going forward. Thank you.