Ladies (or husbands who truly know about their DW in this regard)… How long do your O’s last?
So I was answering the question about “when do women “usually” orgasm, and it made me wonder, how long do women’s orgasms last?
For me, the physical sensations of squeezing/tightening last around 20 seconds with rhythmic pulsing… generally. Sometimes it’s shorter and at some times it lasts at least a minute, maybe a little longer. DH has, at times, said he feels the pulsing after I stop feeling it, so it could be longer than I am able to perceive.
Follow up question, what was done when you had longer O’s?
I’m not sure when there is a time of day women’s O’s can be more receptive or longer, but my best O’s are first thing in the morning. I’ve always said I’m a morning person, apparently it’s in more ways than one!
No idea. If I focus on anything other than the sensation, it goes away. But like someone else said, they sometimes come in waves (though with considerably less than a minute in between), and I have occasionally had them so intense that I continue having “after shocks” for a good five minutes while we cuddle.
I would say my wife’s orgasm last at least 20 to 30 seconds and she nearly always has multiple orgasms. Sometimes she will orgasm 2 or 3 times with less than a minute between each one. Sometimes it is one giant wave, she never really stops and it just gets more intense. These last a couple of minutes!
I couldn’t even begin to say, I’ve never really paid attention to length but rather just enjoyed the sensation. I have occasionally notice “wow that one seemed longer than normal” but I still couldn’t begin to tell you a time length. Unless I’m physically counting seconds or looking at a clock (which would totally kill the O) I’m bad at judging time.