Lingerie

    Lingerie – before it comes off. Let’s get a good discussion going. What do you like? Guys and Gals. This is not a debate about right or wrong.

    Queen bed Asked on April 10, 2019 in Activities & Items .
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      We do both like when I wear sexy lingerie.  I like the way it makes me feel and my hubby loves that he gets to “unwrap” me!  He takes his time as we savor the moments of revealing my those parts of me that are only for his eyes.

      Fell out of ... Answered on April 11, 2019.
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        I’m not a huge fan of lingerie, I’d rather be naked, it’s much more comfortable: I’m not thinking about the distraction of wedgies and tight things digging into uncomfortable places, also there is more skin contact.  If I had to choose a type like seeking change I’d prefer things that I feel flatter me, things that hide areas I don’t love and highlight areas I do,  usually more what I’d consider “romantic looking” that “sexy.”  My husband’s preferences seem to run more along the lines of skin tight, leather/pleather, thongs, and bodysuits.  It’s kind of a sore spot for us because I’ve tried (admittedly half heartedly) some of the things he likes and I feel ridiculous and self conscious in them which totally ruins the mood for both of us because I’m so stilted.   He says it’s like someone dressed up a cat (ever seen those videos where the cat flops off the couch or walks around stiffly with a costume on) a funny visual but sadly true to how I feel.

        On the floor Answered on April 12, 2019.
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          Same! We dont rely look at it, I think I’d enjoy teasing my hubs with some if I lost a few pounds although I know he doesnt rely care about that.

          Queen bed Answered on April 10, 2019.
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            THE WIFE SEES NO NEED FOR LINGERIE, AND I LEARNED MANY MANY YEARS AGO THAT SHE DOES NOT APRECIATE MY BUYING ANY FOR HER. She won’t say why she doesn’t like it.

            Cot Answered on April 10, 2019.
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              For us lingerie is a signal giver.  It’s one way for me to ask for sex and one way for her to tell me that’s she’s wants it.  It rarely stays on long, but it gets things started.

              Twin bed Answered on April 10, 2019.
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                I don’t like barriers to lovemaking so for me,  We bought it before yet I love looking at my wife’s body and feeling skin to skin with her.

                Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on April 10, 2019.
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                  When I wear it, what I like are pieces that I feel flatter me, that highlight the good parts, and hide or camouflage the areas I don’t like. He seems to like black and lace. For the most part, he just seems to want me naked.

                  Under the stars Answered on April 11, 2019.
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                    I love being teased in lingerie, especially when my wife is wearing a thong.

                    Queen bed Answered on April 11, 2019.
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                      my husband has never been into lingerie… whenever i wear it (rarely), it’s more for me… he seems to really not care

                      Double bed Answered on April 11, 2019.
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                        DW is not really a big fan of most lingerie. She will sometimes were sexy panties, or a baby doll. I would love her to wear stockings and a garter belt, but she is not a fan of these kinds of things.

                        On the floor Answered on April 13, 2019.
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