I love my wife in lingerie. I prefer something easy to remove or that grants easy access to critical areas if we decide to leave it on. While I’m OK with just about anything material-wise, I really like lace (color-wise – black, then white, then any other color). My favorite piece my wife has is a cupless, crotchless teddy. It’s a major turn on!
I don’t mind lingerie for the “presentation” for Hubby, but I like to get it off pretty quick after that. Nothing makes me feel LESS sexy than having stuff scrunched all around because Hubby wants to get to the goods but wants to leave the package on. A nightgown (no matter how flimsy) up around my neck is irritating enough to just take me right out of the mood. My ideal is sleepwear that is both sexy and comfortable so I can go to bed ready for sex but fall asleep comfortably if we’re too tired! All things considered, then, it’s best if I just go to bed naked!! 🙂
Chemises are the lingerie of choice for us. Honoring Intimates has been a great place to get some items that really look good on DW. When she does wear lingerie getting it off can sometimes interrupt the mood. Therefore we usually forgo any thongs or panties so when intercourse happens she can immediately get on top or I can take her from behind.
I like some loose clothing on during initial foreplay cause it feels so good to take it off when the temp starts to go up, so to speak. DW not so much, think she’d just rather start out in her birthday suit.
She does have one thing she will wear on occasion, a spaghetti strap slip with matching panties. I really like to get my mouth on her breasts and go down on her also while she is still wearing these, then when the clothing comes off and it’s mouth to bare skin, that is a great sensation for me.
I don’t think she likes it as much, she is always in more of a hurry to get it off than I am !
As some have posted, my wife isn’t into lingerie either. The very few times I bought some (very early in our marriage — 38 yrs and counting), she humored me and wore them once. I haven’t seen them on her since. I’ve learned to accept that and enjoy what we have which is pretty good as it is.