Male chastity device
Has any couples played with those penis cages that are sold as a bit of a fun novelty?
I am quite curious and wondered about them. You can get them in silicone now and this interests me, but… I am wondering if there is anything wrong about this whole thing?
If anyone has played with these, how have you introduced it?
I can’t see any reason why a husband and wife couldn’t enjoy a cage. I find the idea rather intriguing, but they don’t look very comfortable for anything more than short term play. Maybe the silicone is the answer for that. If you get one, I’d be interested in know how it stacks up, for comfort and wearability.
We have talked about trying one, I would give it a try. I don’t think they all hurt and are extremely painful etc.
I would be let out for “good behavior” or doing something nice for the wife, maybe a massage or some house work. I think for sex play, they could be fun to try.
I think the mental framework surrounding male chastity is that the wife assumes more of the dominant role, whereas the man becomes more submissive, hence the reason why he is locked up. Sometimes the wife can even hold (and hide) the key. When we’ve tried it, my wife has sent me a very revealing photo of herself but, being in a cage, I can’t do anything about it. In general, the longer you wear it, the more intense the release when you finally have sex.
I enjoy male chastity as foreplay greatly. My DW has found some joy in it with regard to keeping me locked until she is well lubricated from OS prior to unlocking me for the main event of the evening (PIV). I have tried six different cages and they all have pros and cons (none are 5 stars in all categories).
The metal cages are the most comfortable to wear (with some silicon lube) and can be worn overnight but can be bulky under clothing if worn in public. They can be a major pinch problem when installing so my DW has me install it (which takes some of the fun out…but beats an injury in that part of my body 🙂 )
The plastic cages are the least visible under clothing but chaff more than the metal cages…so lots of silicon lube is needed…haven’t found them comfortable for more than a few hours lock up time.
I found the silicon one to be a joke… required lots of lube but didn’t really stay on… very easy to pull off even when locked…so really not much of a chastity device.
We do use a lock that has round edges so my wife doesn’t get poked when her body parts are touching the cage.
I know. I was totally caught off guard when the conversation came up . It was after our women’s formal group study. Of course, it is easier for women to discuss these things with other women. Especially, in a group studying headship and submission. We were discussing the scope and extent of submission.
The thought is that in a Christian marriage where the man is exercising headship, there is nothing wrong with him willing giving up and his wife willingly accepting some control in the bedroom department. For their husbands and mine, the fact that there is one place where they can be totally vulnerable and open, where they can say to us, I’m yours in any way you want; your timing, your desires and your pleasure first. Without wives sometimes feeling like sex was just a transaction (I’m doing this for you so that I can have an orgasm).
I agree with your friend at church. Not only is there more kissing, hugging, and cuddling, there are massages, foot, full body, and erotic. There is a sweetness and tenderness that surpasses anything we have experienced before Male Chastity. There are times when after a stressful day, my husband will offer to run a bath for me, massage me, and if I wish, give me an orgasm and letting me drift off to sleep totally satisfied, without expecting anything in return. You can’t imagine how that makes a woman feel.
For us, Male Chastity and the device that is worn by our husbands is what has brought about these incredible changes. We still pamper them and take care of them and please them in ways that they tell us is better than anything ever before. That is why they wouldn’t want to go back to the way things were before. Holding the key to their cage, for us and for them, really is holding the key to their heart. It is amazing, for us and for them.