Male chastity device

    Has any couples played with those penis cages that are sold as a bit of a fun novelty?

    I am quite curious and wondered about them. You can get them in silicone now and this interests me, but… I am wondering if there is anything wrong about this whole thing?

    If anyone has played with these, how have you introduced it?


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      I can’t see any reason why a husband and wife couldn’t enjoy a cage. I find the idea rather intriguing, but they don’t look very comfortable for anything more than short term play. Maybe the silicone is the answer for that. If you get one, I’d be interested in know how it stacks up, for comfort and wearability.

      Queen bed Answered on June 20, 2019.
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        We have talked about trying one, I would give it a try.  I don’t think they all hurt and are extremely painful etc.


        I would be let out for “good behavior” or doing something nice for the wife, maybe a massage or some house work. I think for sex play, they could be fun to try.

        King bed Answered on June 14, 2019.

        I ordered one (a silicone one) that was cheap and will see how it goes.

        I haven’t told the wife and am not sure what her reaction would be. Maybe I just have it on one day and surprise her?

        on June 14, 2019.
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          We have one that we use from time to time just for sexual fun.

          Queen bed Answered on June 14, 2019.

          So, do you have any “rules” for wearing it or being released? Does your wife enjoy it?

          on June 17, 2019.

          She really enjoys it. It’s more about her controlling when I can orgasm and when she “chooses” to release me. I sometimes have to earn my release, lol.

          on June 25, 2019.
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            I have read some about male chastity. I think it takes a special wife to want to do it, but of those that did try it with their husband, I think they find it a positive experience.  I think it would be fun to try.

            King bed Answered on June 15, 2019.
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              I think the mental framework surrounding male chastity is that the wife assumes more of the dominant role, whereas the man becomes more submissive, hence the reason why he is locked up. Sometimes the wife can even hold (and hide) the key. When we’ve tried it, my wife has sent me a very revealing photo of herself but, being in a cage, I can’t do anything about it.  In general, the longer you wear it, the more intense the release when you finally have sex.

              Queen bed Answered on June 15, 2019.

              Or… Maybe you could lock yourself up and be in control of her not being able to access? I have no idea, but that came to mind…

              I have no idea on how I would introduce it.

              It would be interesting to know what wives think of the whole concept. Whether they think it is a fun thing, or whether it it just some stupid thing.

              on June 15, 2019.
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                My husband and I have discussed a chastity device before but we don’t own one. Maybe it will make my next online order 🙂

                Queen bed Answered on June 25, 2019.
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                  I enjoy male chastity as foreplay greatly.  My DW has found some joy in it with regard to keeping me locked until she is well lubricated from OS prior to unlocking me for the main event of the evening (PIV).  I have tried six different cages and they all have pros and cons (none are 5 stars in all categories).
                  The metal cages are the most comfortable to wear (with some silicon lube) and can be worn overnight but can be bulky under clothing if worn in public.  They can be a major pinch problem when installing so my DW has me install it (which takes some of the fun out…but beats an injury in that part of my body 🙂 )
                  The plastic cages are the least visible under clothing but chaff more than the metal cages…so lots of silicon lube is needed…haven’t found them comfortable for more than a few hours lock up time.
                  I found the silicon one to be a joke… required lots of lube but didn’t really stay on… very easy to pull off even when locked…so really not much of a chastity device.
                  We do use a lock that has round edges so my wife doesn’t get poked when her body parts are touching the cage.

                  Twin bed Answered on September 3, 2019.
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                    They hurt. A lot. It’s just not natural to out your penis inside of one of those things.

                    Let me try to describe the feeling. While you’re flacid, tie some dental floss tightly around your penis. Then, get an erection. If that feeling turns you on, go ahead. But for me, it’s ow-ow-ow-ow.

                    Don’t ask me why chastity devices hurt so much. It doesn’t look like it should. But it does.

                    I’ve never tried silicone but I’d imagine there’s still chafing.

                    Twin bed Answered on June 13, 2019.

                    Thanks for sharing. I guess you have tried them out before? I ended up ordering the silicone one (it was pretty cheap and if I throw it away, so be it). The curiosity has me intrigued, but I wanted to make sure this kind of thing wasn’t wrong.

                    on June 13, 2019.
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                      Never tried one. Not that interested. But, I agree, the silicone model might not be so bad.

                      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on June 14, 2019.
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                        I’m keen to give it a try. I have no idea on how I would introduce it to my wife and I’m not sure what her reaction would be either. It would be my hope that she finds it amusing and a bit of fun.
                        It would be interesting to get a female’s opinion on this…

                        Twin bed Answered on June 14, 2019.
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