Male chastity device
Has any couples played with those penis cages that are sold as a bit of a fun novelty?
I am quite curious and wondered about them. You can get them in silicone now and this interests me, but… I am wondering if there is anything wrong about this whole thing?
If anyone has played with these, how have you introduced it?
They hurt. A lot. It’s just not natural to out your penis inside of one of those things.
Let me try to describe the feeling. While you’re flacid, tie some dental floss tightly around your penis. Then, get an erection. If that feeling turns you on, go ahead. But for me, it’s ow-ow-ow-ow.
Don’t ask me why chastity devices hurt so much. It doesn’t look like it should. But it does.
I’ve never tried silicone but I’d imagine there’s still chafing.
I’m keen to give it a try. I have no idea on how I would introduce it to my wife and I’m not sure what her reaction would be either. It would be my hope that she finds it amusing and a bit of fun.
It would be interesting to get a female’s opinion on this…
I saw you mentioned wanting to know wives opinions. I hadn’t answered because I have no experience in this area….and I have no interest in exploring something like this. There is something in me that is uneasy and very resistant to go anywhere near me being in a dominant role and my husband being in a submissive role….and that is how I view a male chastity belt, along with other things, like pegging. That is a total turn off for me personally. But, if you guys have fun with it, enjoy.
I have tried out the silicon type cage and it’s ok, but… They are a bit too flexible and can be hard to put on (too fiddly).
Does anyone have any experience with solid plastic types? I am a bit hesitant to try metal. Any thoughts on this?
My husband and I are younger than many here I would imagine. I first found out about male chastity from older women in our women’s group at church. It came up privately after a study about submission. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing but there are about six women who practice this with their husbands. Two men are elders and one is a deacon. I never thought I would try it or that my husband would go for it but after many conversations and coaching from the ladies, I was absolutely intrigued by what it did for their relationships. I was convinced to try it and was able to gradually introduce it to my husband – first, as a fun, adventurous play thing. They seemed sure that it would become more but I wasn’t sure. It took some time and effort but we have been using a cage for over two years now. I can only say that not only is it fun, it has transformed our relationship. My husband has never been so loving, attentive, and helpful. He is the head of our home in everything. But in the bedroom, we have agreed that I am in control and it is amazing for both of us. I control how often he can orgasm and he has been wearing the cage 24/7 for about 16 months. With a little effort and teasing on my part, he is always in the mood and always willing to please me in bed even if it doesn’t result in an orgasm for him. He never knows when I will decide to unlock the cage give him an orgasm and it drives him wild with desire. It’s hard to imagine but the ladies were exactly right in everything they told me. Using a cage and having control of his penis and orgasms has been incredible for us and I would recommend it for any couples willing to be a little adventurous and just give it a try. You may find that it transforms your sex lives as well. I can’t imagine ever going back to before we started with male chastity. I think many women, like me, who cannot even conceive of trying this would be amazed and how much it will make the relationship better for them and their husbands.
That would be an interesting discussion with my DW. It sounds like you either really like it or not at all, nothing in the middle. For those who enjoy it, would you say then that you are more comfortable with other forms of bondage or is it that you feel more engaged through cuddling, kissing, etc.?
I think it speaks of domination by the wife. I don’t want to be in a female led marriage like those one can read about. I can understand creative fun but I would never go to work with one or go out of the house with it. The man is the head of the house after all.