Male chastity device

    Has any couples played with those penis cages that are sold as a bit of a fun novelty?

    I am quite curious and wondered about them. You can get them in silicone now and this interests me, but… I am wondering if there is anything wrong about this whole thing?

    If anyone has played with these, how have you introduced it?


    Just wondering… Has there been any more updates on this topic? Have any other couples introduced this for a bit of fun?

    Please understand that I am not into using chastity play to degrade or disrespect a person. When I talk about chastity play and chastity cages for men, I am merely talking about just some harmless “naughty” fun…

    It would be interesting to see if anyone is into it.

    Sadly… When I try and do some research on the internet, there is just trash about dominatrix’s and making the man suffer etc. Ugh…

    on February 24, 2020.
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      They hurt. A lot. It’s just not natural to out your penis inside of one of those things.

      Let me try to describe the feeling. While you’re flacid, tie some dental floss tightly around your penis. Then, get an erection. If that feeling turns you on, go ahead. But for me, it’s ow-ow-ow-ow.

      Don’t ask me why chastity devices hurt so much. It doesn’t look like it should. But it does.

      I’ve never tried silicone but I’d imagine there’s still chafing.

      Twin bed Answered on June 13, 2019.

      Thanks for sharing. I guess you have tried them out before? I ended up ordering the silicone one (it was pretty cheap and if I throw it away, so be it). The curiosity has me intrigued, but I wanted to make sure this kind of thing wasn’t wrong.

      on June 13, 2019.
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        We have talked about trying one, I would give it a try.  I don’t think they all hurt and are extremely painful etc.


        I would be let out for “good behavior” or doing something nice for the wife, maybe a massage or some house work. I think for sex play, they could be fun to try.

        Fell out of ... Answered on June 14, 2019.

        I ordered one (a silicone one) that was cheap and will see how it goes.

        I haven’t told the wife and am not sure what her reaction would be. Maybe I just have it on one day and surprise her?

        on June 14, 2019.
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          Never tried one. Not that interested. But, I agree, the silicone model might not be so bad.

          Under the stars Answered on June 14, 2019.
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            We have one that we use from time to time just for sexual fun.

            Queen bed Answered on June 14, 2019.

            So, do you have any “rules” for wearing it or being released? Does your wife enjoy it?

            on June 17, 2019.

            She really enjoys it. It’s more about her controlling when I can orgasm and when she “chooses” to release me. I sometimes have to earn my release, lol.

            on June 25, 2019.

            Sounds like a fun activity… I think it is just another way to have fun, just another toy… Nothing sinister…

            on March 31, 2020.
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              I’m keen to give it a try. I have no idea on how I would introduce it to my wife and I’m not sure what her reaction would be either. It would be my hope that she finds it amusing and a bit of fun.
              It would be interesting to get a female’s opinion on this…

              Twin bed Answered on June 14, 2019.
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                I have read some about male chastity. I think it takes a special wife to want to do it, but of those that did try it with their husband, I think they find it a positive experience.  I think it would be fun to try.

                Fell out of ... Answered on June 15, 2019.
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                  I think the mental framework surrounding male chastity is that the wife assumes more of the dominant role, whereas the man becomes more submissive, hence the reason why he is locked up. Sometimes the wife can even hold (and hide) the key. When we’ve tried it, my wife has sent me a very revealing photo of herself but, being in a cage, I can’t do anything about it.  In general, the longer you wear it, the more intense the release when you finally have sex.

                  Queen bed Answered on June 15, 2019.

                  Or… Maybe you could lock yourself up and be in control of her not being able to access? I have no idea, but that came to mind…

                  I have no idea on how I would introduce it.

                  It would be interesting to know what wives think of the whole concept. Whether they think it is a fun thing, or whether it it just some stupid thing.

                  on June 15, 2019.
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                    I saw you mentioned wanting to know wives opinions. I hadn’t answered because I have no experience in this area….and I have no interest in exploring something like this. There is something in me that is uneasy and very resistant to go anywhere near me being in a dominant role and my husband being in a submissive role….and that is how I view a male chastity belt, along with other things, like pegging. That is a total turn off for me personally. But, if you guys have fun with it, enjoy.

                    Under the stars Answered on June 18, 2019.

                    Horses for courses I guess? It is only a bit of harmless fun really and not really anything serious…

                    Pegging? I have no idea on what that is and to be honest… I think I would rather not know.

                    on June 19, 2019.
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                      I can’t see any reason why a husband and wife couldn’t enjoy a cage. I find the idea rather intriguing, but they don’t look very comfortable for anything more than short term play. Maybe the silicone is the answer for that. If you get one, I’d be interested in know how it stacks up, for comfort and wearability.

                      Queen bed Answered on June 20, 2019.

                      I have tried out a few devices so far and have the following comments –

                      Silicone – Ok, but really depends on the type

                      Plastic – Seems to be my preference so far

                      Metal – Nah, too heavy as in like 8oz heavy

                      on March 31, 2020.
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                        My husband and I have discussed a chastity device before but we don’t own one. Maybe it will make my next online order 🙂

                        Queen bed Answered on June 25, 2019.
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