Manual stimulation: fingering question.

    Ladies, if you receive manual stimulation from your DH, how many fingers have you managed? how many are OK? and how many are too much?

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      I can answer from a husband’s experience. Usually if just getting started 2 is enough. But after getting warmed up 3-4. We almost successfully got my fist in once but I couldn’t get past my lower thumb joint.

      At lot of it is determined by the DH hand size. If I had smaller hands my whole fist could have fit but it would have only post orgasm.

      Twin bed Answered on July 16, 2020.
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        My experience is almost identical to @BBM. For true stimulation, two is really good. But for the sake of fun and exploration, we’ve gotten all fingers in, and stopped short of the whole fist at his lower thumb joint.

        Under the stars Answered on July 16, 2020.
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          My wife enjoys two fingers once she is warmed up a little. Two fingers inside, thumb on her clit.

          On the floor Answered on July 16, 2020.
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            A couple of times when we’re really revved up, I’ve gotten all 5 fingers in, up to the knuckles.

            On the floor Answered on July 16, 2020.
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              Two fingers maximum. Even though DW gave birth twice naturally, two fingers feels quite tight. Similar to @Ron – one or two fingers inside, thumb on the clitoris.

              Fell out of ... Answered on July 16, 2020.
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                Usually one to start with, later on as she is more aroused two is just fine. Have managed up to 4 fingers, but only for exploration…

                Hammock Answered on July 16, 2020.
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                  Two is our standard number and is comfortable with even a small level of arousal. Sometimes if her ascent to O is drawn out, she really vlamps down and I worry about having my circulation cut off (I have no idea how my penis can take it, honestly). When that happens, I often can only move one finger with the internal stimulation.

                  We did a lot more finger play back before PIV was an option (unmarried). I got four in once, but that hurt. Several times we did three, but she often ended up sore the next day. Maybe I can try three again when she’s using the vibe.

                  -Scott

                  Under the stars Answered on July 16, 2020.
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                    3 is great, even 4. But not the hand. It doesn’t hurt than, but I find that I have a dull ache somewhere inside, the next day, and I hate that feeling.

                    Under the stars Answered on July 16, 2020.
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                      Interesting, I was thinking you meant manual stimulation of the clitoris. I use one or sometimes two for that nearly every session. My DW has not enjoyed “fingering” in the past. It must not do much for her and she has called it distracting. Probably time to revisit it as we have been doing pretty good in the sex department in the last several months.

                      Fell out of ... Answered on July 16, 2020.
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                        I think 2. Before menopause more would have felt great also but the exquisiteness i used to feel inside w/penetration is gone, even with HRT so i think 2 is plenty…

                        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on July 16, 2020.
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