Men and Women, do you like anal touching either during sex or massage?
I am mostly asking wife’s here, but do you enjoy having your anus touched or massaged during sex or when your partner gives you a massage? Not talking about anal sex or inserting anything, just playing and massaging outside. Myself, I love it. Curious if women enjoy it and should I try it on my wife.
Have not tried any AP other than straightforward AS. DH is really sensitive (or ticklish? embarrassed? not sure–) about that general area, so when I try to stroke the perineum he gets really clenchy and when I stroke the seam of his butt cheeks, well, let’s just say if I managed to get some carbon up in there I could have some nice diamonds! We laugh about it, because both moves are rather obviously stimulating to him as well as causing whatever feeling is making him tighten up so much. I can’t blame him though, because it is not something I can imagine myself enjoying either. But you never know; we might give it a real try one day and like it.
Yes and Yes! Many times, we start with a massage including neck, arms, back, legs and, of course, derriere. Once relaxed, AP is very arrogating. And during rear entry positions — reverse cowgirl, doggy, bent over, etc. some light strokes along the radial ridges or pressure from a well placed thumb are incredible.
Usually no direct AP during massages, but I do give attention to the surrounding area for DW.
During foreplay, she enjoys more direct AP while she has her preliminary Os before going to PIV.
We have tried inserting fingers, but she prefers AP outside more than inside.
We use finger cots.
I love it, hubby has said he doesn’t want me to try it on him lol.
I only feel comfortable with it if I have showered just before LMing. DH uses his fingers (touching the outside only) and mouth, so I want to feel clean and fresh before he does anything back there.
Mrs. Oldbear loves anal play around and on her rosebud during foreplay. It just feels good to her, and she let’s me know when I’m doing it just right with a catch of her breath or moan. We are also all about stimulating my prostate externally – the distal perineum area near my anus is a wonderful place for her to lightly massage me.
I’ve had mine massaged a couple tmes while receiving OS. Although it didn’t send me over the edge I did like it. I have massaged DW there a few times with my thumb while giving her OS. She didn’t respond as if she really liked it, but didn’t stop me either. She also admonished me when I was finished to ” be sure and wash your hands “. ( She’s so funny )