Men would you/have you put on a show for your lady? Ladies how have you/would you respond to your guy putting on a show for you?
I should add, there have been times when it was an “off” night so he was taking care of himself, and he wasn’t putting a show on for me, but he asked be to watch (he does have that exhibition streak), and I indulge him, and at times will get involved by fondling “the boys”, touches on the chest, pinching the nipples, etc
Answering my question:
I’ve been masturbating, not for her rather for me, when Mrs. Oldbear has walked in. Since the mood for her (she’s not ‘thinking’ sex) is neutral, her body and verbal language is, ‘Carry on – enjoy yourself!’
If we’ve been flirting a bit and I begin to masturbate in front of her or even start when she’s out of the room, she’ll generally give me an assist and cheer me on.
There are times, too, when I announce my intent ‘to get started’ while she’s in her evening bath. This always turns into a great time of sexual intimacy. I’ll masturbate to completion, she’ll join me, she’ll masturbate herself, or we’ll consummate it all with PIV.
Occasionally, DH will pretend to start mb’ing in front of me. I tell him that since he started, he gets to keep on while I watch! Or I help if that’s what he wants. If I walked in and he was actually putting on a show for me, I would likely join him or ask what he wanted me to do. I would make sure we both had fun and hope he would do it again.
As I stated in the other thread, I don’t find it erotic, and he knows it won’t do anything for me, so if he is doing it, he has another purpose than to turn me on….and he is likely just being silly. Depending on the setting or the mood, I might laugh and roll my eyes. Or I will do something to throw him off in a fun way.
Nope, never done a show based on masturbation. I think the only part of one that she would find arousing would be the O/ejaculation. But since PIV is such a major part of how she views sex and ejaculation would remove that option (I’m one/done), we wouldn’t move onto anything else after it.
Now, I have done a striptease show where I really put myself out there. That actually went over okay.
I just forwarded this question to my wife. I’m really not sure how she would react to a MB show under the same roof. We MB together about once a week, by video chat, but i don’t think seeing the “show” is a turn on for her like it is for me. I have noticed that she watches more attentively all the way through now than she used to.