Moans when returning home from work
Have some fun with your husband and surprise him when he gets home. Let him come in hearing you moan and discover the reason is because you are pleasuring yourself in the bedroom. This is a huge turn on for a guy.
I think we personally are past the point of that (would have been interesting to have that happen and see the response when we were much younger) and it also depends on the man but i do know after my “awakening” during sex i would start hesitantly touching myself as i have never done that before and it really turned him on, now sometimes he’ll grab my hand and put it there. It is very nice to be accepted sexually like that, to be free, i imagine that is what most men want to feel from their wives, also. I have never done it to completion and don’t have the desire and neither does he but yes it’s a turn-on for him .
I’ve got two perspectives here. In the context of a healthy relationship where as the DH I know it’s a show put on to get me going, then yes, that would be incredible!
On the flipside, if there is any chance it could be interpreted as DW masturbating in place of being with DH, then I see this as potentially damaging. I would say that this would be a great discussion topic between DW and DH.