Monday, January 6, 2020 – Today’s Question(s) of the Day
I am not afraid to suggest this to DH, but I have decided not to, out of respect for him and because it would stress him out, as he is not a risk taker.
I would love to have sex outside either on our deck (not an option as our daughter’s bedroom window overlooks it) or on our patio, or by our fireplace.
Scott thank you for that and not only that, LD spouses are constantly admonished to knock it off and step up to the plate ( realize this verbage is probably too strong, just making a point). LD spouses ARE NOT BROKEN. Kudo’s should be given to those honestly trying to meet their spouses needs and not bashed w/specific scriptures. I think in all things, GRACE should be given.
That said, i’m not the LD spouse, i think my H’s and my drive are pretty much matched although i respond like a woman, meaning rarely initiate and he’s usually the pursuer. So i guess “my” answer would be i want to bring as much passion to the marriage bed as possible and constantly try to get out of my head and have my body respond that way too. There’s really not much else we can bring as we are both limited physically. There is one thing but i’ve already brought it up and it’s not really important enough to be discontent should it not happen.
I have told my DW all my longings regarding things I would like to do in our marriage bed. For those who have read my previous posts, my DW ha a pretty restricted set of activities she is comfortable doing. It is my hope that in 2020 we can expand our repertoire a bit.
There’s nothing I am afraid to bring up to him in the way I think you mean; it is more that I don’t want to harp on it, since we have discussed it before, because we are doing some new and different things and I don’t want him to feel like he or his efforts are not enough or are unsatisfactory. I’m not going to complain about waiting for a certain dish when we are enjoying such improvement to our regular meals of late. There are many meals to come and we will get around to my dish eventually. 😉