My wife and I are separated but trying to work things out. She did something tonight. Was it on purpose? Is she giving me signals?

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    My wife and I have been separated for a month. I had constantly lied about financial issues so a lack of trust developed. Over the past week or more things have been better and I have been having dinner with her and our teenage kids and basically hanging out until bedtime. Today our son was not feeling well so he was laying in our bed. When she went to get her PJs on she went and got her cloths and brought them back into our laundry room where I was in the adjacent kitchen. She proceeds to remove her cloths in front of me as we talked. She made a smart comment asking what I was looking at and I told her it had been a long time since I saw her. She laughed and proceeded and said her cloths where in the laundry. I know she brought at least part of her PJs in the laundry. I’m Praying that this is a good sign that she is feeling more comfortable. Please share your thoughts 

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      From what you shared, it seems to me that she did it on purpose! It appears to me she was putting out feelers to get a read on you and if you still found her appealing.

      Under the stars Answered on February 26, 2020.
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        Could be. Hard to tell without knowing more context but I’ll pray that it is a real step. It certainly is a sign of comfort around you which is good. Trust is different but could follow.

        Beyond that, all I would offer as unsolicited advice is to continue to be transparent and totally honest in all areas of your life with her. Almost over the top so if you need to. You have to take steps to repair broken trust. She also has to decide to trust again, which is hard. If she sees you as being completely honest in other areas, that can help her decide to trust in the financial area again. Prayers for you both.

        Queen bed Answered on February 26, 2020.
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          If I were in that situation with my wife, I’d have made a move.  She walked my me naked one time nonchalantly.  I reached to grab her and started to chase her and she giggled.  Hmm. That was intentional. She must have been horny instead of walking around naked for no reason.  My wife isn’t the type just to tease to torment me and not go through with it, but she usually isn’t aggressive about initiating, so if there are signals, I need to follow through.  And I don’t wait for signals.

          I don’t know what your wife is like, but if it were my and my wife, I’d have been up in her personal space rather quickly.

          If it had been a month, she might have had some cravings.  Having sex with her could be a step forward in getting reacquainted.

          Queen bed Answered on February 26, 2020.
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            Praying that things get back on track for you both.

            California King Answered on February 26, 2020.
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