Options after Neck Injury

    Question for the group – my DW recently pinched a nerve in her neck that has caused some excruciating pain. For two weeks she’s been pretty immobilized. She’s doing physical therapy and it’s helping, but it’s not a quick and easy fix.

     

    its obviously taken a toll on our physical intimacy.  She’s currently too afraid to try sex, and HJs are probably even worse for her because of the stress it puts on her shoulder.  Wondering if anyone has dealt with something like this in the past and has any recommendations.  Thanks!

    Queen bed Asked on January 22, 2020 in Pain (During or preventing sex).
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      I would think that sex positions where she doesn’t need to strain her neck and her back and neck can be straight, such as in a chair, her lying on the edge of the bed, standing against a wall (in your bodies can align for that). Maybe rear entry while she rests her head & arms on a table or counter. Gentle thrusting is probably also important so there’s not the jolts to her body & neck.

      Of course, if she can’t orgasm from PIV, then you’re probably gonna need to do things manually lying down. HOWEVER, I would suspect that she might be afraid of an orgasm for fear of the movement might hurt her neck so that might be off the table for awhile.

       

      Under the stars Answered on January 22, 2020.
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        I’ve been there. We used the spooning position with my head and neck well supported by pillows. My orgasm definitely wasn’t a priority. As NWNL said, I really didn’t want extra movement complicating matters. Just the thought of it made me more tense. It wasn’t ideal, but you make do when there’s an injury.

        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on January 22, 2020.
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          Have you tried breast sex? Or thrusting between her buttocks?

          Under the stars Answered on January 22, 2020.
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            Maybe you could MB while cuddling with her? I don’t think ANY sexual activity involving her right now would be a good idea at all, especially given the neck region. Just give her time to heal and things will be back to normal.

            Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on January 22, 2020.

            I agree, this is a great time to just take care of your needs my MB’ing. Does she need some sex too? Maybe her lay on her back and you use your fingers or give oral to her. If she isn’t feeling sexual, time to take care of yourself and not depend on her, She just needs her rest.

            on January 23, 2020.
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              When either of us have body aches or pains that limit our sexual activity, we masturbate together for one or both of us. We engage in helping only to the extent that the sore and achy one is comfortable.

              Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on January 24, 2020.
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