Oral after PIV
For those of you who are not quite warmed up to the idea of tasting the liquids, maybe some of it is down to the quantity. I find that some level of sharing often happens anyway, as part of other activities. For example DW and I always have a kiss after lovemaking. If either of us had done any OS, there will be some taste left behind so you might have already done a bit of the practice described here. So I’m sure that if I spent some time exploring her V, she will taste it on my lips and vice versa if she had done any OS after I went over the finish line, I will taste a bit of my fluids on her. And I find that a little hint of taste is nice even if I don’t necessarily want to have meal out of it, so to say. I think there is a level of intimacy in sharing everything.
DW doesn’t want to taste herself so even kissing after I do oral on her is out, but part of me has always wanted to go down on her after I finish. Never have done it though. Sounds fun before I finish, but after the desire goes away completely. More a fun fantasy at this point. Besides our current lube has a little bit of silicone in it to last longer and it doesn’t taste good.
The DW’s best orgasms come from me doing oral after PIV sex, so this is an almost every time thing for us.
We find sharing each others, and our own stuff, sexy, erotic, and quite intimate. Since we passed that hurdle, it has meant that no particular thing precludes another. If we do oral for each other, we don’t send the other out to be dry-cleaned and pressure-washed before we share a thank-you kiss. Same thing for doing oral after PIV, either way.
Could it be that some, actually believe that oral is a ‘dirty’ thing? I kind of wonder.
DH has with no deposit; never with. I have come to enjoy my taste on DH’s mouth, BUT sometimes when there has been a lot of wetness generated in the process he is very wet–sloppy wet–all around his mouth (and it clings in his facial hair) and I don’t care for that. I like when he wipes up a bit before kissing without wiping everything away. One very nice, natural way his does this is simply to kiss my inner thigh before he moves back up my body, thus leaving the messiest bit there.
I have tried to kiss him before after giving him OS to completion, just to give him a taste of himself, but he resisted. [shrugs shoulders]