Pavlovian conditioning

    My wife has been more sexually attentive to me recently, but doesn’t really want intercourse all that often, so I get more hand jobs.   I like her to want to have sex.  Last night, she got excited during a handjob playing with some new toys that had me at full mast, so she wanted to have a go and we had a good time together.

    I’d thought of an idea to try to get her excited.  I am not big into cologne.  My wife said she liked it a couple of years back when I was poor and uemployed.  I bought some that smelled okay at the Dollar Tree.  She didn’t like that fact that I got cheap perfume, but I was skimping on everything since I didn’t know where our rent would come from.  I still have the cologne.

    I put a little of it on my fingers last night when I thought we were having sex.  Then she offered a hand job.  When she decided she want text, of course she had lots of lots of orgasms.  I’d finished and she decided she wanted some more rounds of orgasms until she reached a good stopping place, so I got between her legs on an elbow and went to work.  We were using a vibrator.  I had a finger I’d sprayed with the cologne.  When she had a few of those powerful orgasms, I put my cologne-scented fingers under her nose.  Her eyes were closed tightly, so she didn’t know it.

    I figure I’ll give her a whiff of that cologne during orgasms… or maybe just the ones that seem exceptionally intense.  At some point in the future, when I want to get her in the mood for intercourse, I’ll spray a bit on me and see if she chases me around the bedroom.  🙂  That sounds like fun.  Someday, I may tell her about it.

    Those unfamiliar with Pavlov’s experience may know about Jim’s experiment with Dwight.

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      I’ll have to give the article a read. Sounds interesting. After all, the name Pavlov does ring a bell.

      Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on August 15, 2020.


      on August 15, 2020.
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        For those wanting to know a little more about this topic:

        How to Use Classical Conditioning to Enhance Your Sex Life – Married Christian Sex


        Under the stars Answered on August 14, 2020.

        Interesting read!

        on August 14, 2020.

        Hmmmm, I hope DW doesn’t read this…then again, maybe she should OR maybe she already has. 😀  I know she loves my beard shampoo/beard oil so I always apply it to another “area” OR when she washes my beard in the shower, she’ll usually finish by washing another object “my/our affection”.  😀

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          😀 I will be interested to hear if this works.

          I have kind of thought that I experience the Pavlov effect, but in a different way.

          Under the stars Answered on August 14, 2020.
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            A sexual pheromone (pleasant smell) is quite likely triggering her response. There is lots of research and proof that ‘triggers’ of our senses are powerful sexual interest stimulators!

            Just keep things simple – it worked once – it could be a phenomenon (not a misspelling, folks 🙂) Try it again.! If it works a second time it could be a coincidence – maybe not! Try it again! If it happens a third time – it’s a pattern! Keep doing it!!! 😁😁😁

            Under the stars Answered on August 15, 2020.
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