Pegging?

    Hi there do any couples on here practice this activity?   We talk about this once in a while but have never really tried it .We are definitely not scared to try new things but have not pulled the trigger on this because we are not sure if we would like it. I imagine it would be lots of laughing which could make it fun. Maybe we just need some encouragement or tips from a couple who has tried this? Thanks

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      I would try it if my wife wanted to do it. I think it takes a special couple to do pegging.  Maybe the wife wants to feel dominate in bed, nothing wrong with that.

      Queen bed Answered on August 18, 2019.
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        I will start with this disclaimer….we have never done this, nor do I have any interest in it, but my husband does.

        If you decide to do it, I would think the same tips you would need are the ones used for AS. Lots of lube. Go slow. If it hurts, stop. I would even think you would want to start with a smaller size dildo. From other experiences, I personally like something that is softer and more flexible (like silicone), rather than hard and unmovable (like glass). We have zero experience with harnesses, but I do recall on the old boards, someone had a way of just using a scarf, tied a certain way, instead of a harness and it was much more comfortable for her.

        Just like any experimentation in marriage, have fun, do laugh, and realize that one time may not be enough to get a true feel for whether one will like it or not. Be prepared and open to hearing your spouses thoughts and realize compromise or surrendering future desires of it may be needed….for either of you.

        Something read on a blog or heard somewhere by my husband (probably on The Generous Husband), and he has taken it to heart, is, trying new things together, builds intimacy. I don’t know that it was necessarily speaking of sexually, but I think it would be true there as well. And the intimacy building isn’t on the fact that you both end up enjoying it, it’s on the fact you did it together.

        Under the stars Answered on August 18, 2019.
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          Thanks everyone for replying. I tried replying earlier but it seems to have been lost so I will mention again that its doesn’t seem like pegging is that common of a thing ? I would probly try it if was asked but I think my wife thinks it’s wrong for now.

          Twin bed Answered on August 19, 2019.
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            Jay Dee has an article about pegging that may be helpful…I’ve haven’t looked into it although I would be open:

            https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/is-it-okay-to-engage-in-pegging-in-a-marriage/

            Fell out of ... Answered on August 17, 2019.
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              I have absolutely no desire to try this at all.  And my wife has never mentioned it so I don’t think she does either.  But if, for some reason, she would come to me one night and express a desire to experiment with it I probably would go along just because of the number of times she has gone along with my requests to try something she had no desire of her own to do.

              Queen bed Answered on August 18, 2019.
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                @Administrator:  The comment I had posted on this question disappeared. Was it offensive? I didn’t mean for it to be and I apologize if it was.

                On the floor Answered on August 18, 2019.

                It wasn’t offensive; it just didn’t fit the question or the guidelines for the All Things Anal section.

                on August 18, 2019.

                I don’t guess it’s that big a deal, but I really don’t understand. All I said was I’m adventurous but I have no interest in this and am glad DH doesn’t either. I have seen this same type of response to other questions.  Frankly I’m baffled.

                on August 18, 2019.

                Where are the rules for all the different sections? I thought these boards were different, and I have only seen the very generalized, “be kind to others” rules, which makes “not following rules” fairly cut and dry.

                on August 18, 2019.
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                  I have tried to reply 3 times not sure why this is not working did someone shut this down?

                  Twin bed Answered on August 21, 2019.
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                    Were you logged in? It’s easy to be logged out and not know it.

                    Under the stars Answered on August 21, 2019.
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                      I responded to this question when it first came up. No, it was not favorable towards pegging, but it was the truth. It wasn’t a criticism, just my own facts in our own MB. I simply stated that there was no interest on our part and left it there. My comment was also missing….

                      Queen bed Answered on August 21, 2019.
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                        We have done this a few times and have both enjoyed it. DW is fine with it and gets a mischievous gleam in her eye, but I think she does it mostly for me. It is usually part of a HJ when PIV isn’t an option.

                        It started when I got a prostate massager after a painful prostate infection. It progressed from her not wanting to know anything about it to giving me a digital PM (her fingers are too short) to pegging. This & much more coincided with her general reawakening/restoration of her libido a few years ago. Unfortunately my prostate isn’t as sensitive as it was before the infection and I haven’t had a prostate orgasm as some claim.  On the plus side, I haven’t had another infection!

                        Twin bed Answered on August 22, 2019.
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