Position Hacks

    My wife and I are running into some problems when trying to do side of the bed positions.  Our bed has a side “rail” (you can see it at https://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/S19931592/) that holds the box spring section.


    When trying to get into these positions I can’t get close enough because of this rail without it digging into my shins and for her to come closer she hangs off enough that it puts strain on her lower back.  Even then it’s not really close enough.



    Any suggestions on how we could mitigate this?

    Twin bed Asked on September 9, 2019 in Intercourse (PIV) & Positions.
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      I’d suggest putting a pillow or foam against it.

      Other than that, a chair, chair back or desk might give you some of the position options at the height you desire.  Also, I’d strongly recommend Liberator pillows or furniture.  They would allow you to do some of the things you desire on the bed, floor or furniture. Sign up for their email and you can get them with a significant discount, even 30%+ multiple times a year.  You can also get them at places like marrieddance.com.

      On the floor Answered on September 9, 2019.
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        Since we sometimes forget the radical ideas just because they are radical, have you considered how important that particular bed is to you?  Would it be possible to just get a different bed?

        Under the stars Answered on September 9, 2019.

        I had this thought as well. When Wifey and I upgraded to a king size mattress one of the reasons we chose the frame/headboard/footboard we did was for easier incorporation and positional variety for restraints.

        on September 9, 2019.
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