Post Orgasmic Stimulation

    Back when I was in my 30’s, I was really horny and asked my wife to give me a hand job focused on the sensitive part of my penis, the top, and to keep stimulating after.  The idea of her going on when I was sensitive afterward was really erotic to me.

    She’d done that once when we were in our 20’s as newly weds, insisting on pushing me through to another orgasm.  It was because I always coaxed her to keep going for another and another and another when she wanted ot quit when I was serving her.

    I got so worked up with the hand job, that she wanted sex, so on other occasions, I had her keep going after orgasm when giving me hand jobs from time to time, but I’d move out of the way to stop it.  I had to be tied up.  She was never too crazy about that. I’d have to strap myself with some velcro and twine I’d made.

    Eventually, though I lost sensitivity post-orgams and rarely get just a little of it back occassionally.  Sexual stimulation afterward is a little more sensitive than a refractory period.  It is fun for her to keep going if she’s on top after intercourse.  When I was sensitive, the intimacy and feel of her skin on me still felt good.  I still enjoy that for a while after ejaculation now in the WOT position even if I am not overstiulated.

    I wonder if I trained myself to do this, or do men just get less sensitive over all with age?  I’m in my mid 40’s now.   Has anyone else experimented with this?

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      For me continued stimulation after orgasm has always been uncomfortable almost to the point of pain. It’s not as strong at 58, but it’s still not enjoyable.

      But that only lasts a short time. Ten seconds of rest and it’s gone.

      Fell out of ... Answered on April 17, 2019.
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        I’ve noticed the older I have gotten (mid-50s now), the less sensitive I’ve become post-orgasm, but it seems to only be the case with intercourse.  With anything else (hand, oral, etc.) the head of my penis just gets too sensitive to continue.   Don’t know if that’s an issue of age, but it is pretty nice to be able to stay in longer during intercourse after orgasm!

        Fell out of ... Answered on April 17, 2019.
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          I don’t enjoy post orgasm stimulation. It gets too sensitive I think.

          Double bed Answered on April 18, 2019.
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            I am able to stay hard and last post orgasm, but it’s hard (no pun intented) to do so.  The reason is muscles get tired and it is hard to keep going.  Except if she’s in the WOT position.  Even if I don’t have a desire to orgasm, emotionally it feels good to feel her on me if she’s laying down.  She’ll keep going for my enjoyment.

            Usually, we get her all orgasmed up before she does WOT, except she likes to have one more to clear out my ejaculate.  She says she smells different if it stays in there, and I guess she got used to it as a little help to birth control

            It’s kind of a waste to be able to keep going because she’s not the marathon sex type.  I seem to want long sex more, except sometimes she’ll want to have orgasm upon orgasm if she gets into the swing of things, instead of just two or three and being done with it after that.

            California King Answered on April 25, 2019.
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              This is an interesting question.  During HJs, I had kind of felt like there was more to come if I let her keep stimulating me.  But frankly it felt in my mind like I might pee.  And so, I always had her stop.

              But after working with her to get past her fear of peeing when trying to make her squirt, I decided work though it myself.    She was very supportive.  Long story short I discovered I can have a second orgasm within a few minutes of the first.  And it is incredibly intense.  And messy.  Sometimes I remain hard, sometimes not.  Not something we do often but it’s a lot of fun when we do.  Wish I had tried long ago.

              Double bed Answered on July 24, 2019.
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                I would so love to continue playing after DH’s O, but he is just way too sensitive and can’t stand it. 🙁

                Under the stars Answered on July 24, 2019.

                A man may need to be tied up first.  🙂  With his agreement of course.

                on October 4, 2019.
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                  This is something she’ll do to me after a HJ since I let her know how it gets ultra-sensitive and horny. Sometimes its so intense I have to stop her. Sometimes I grab her hands and slow the rhythm. Sometimes when I’m relaxed and focused enough, I can concentrate hard and ride that bull and she can whack away – still driving me nuts, but enjoying.

                  A funny thing. She gets a little power trip by having that power over me. Post-ejaculation HJ and tickling. I can see the gleam in her eyes! lol, she’ll fight me to keep going and I’ll be panicking, trying to get her to stop pumping. She thinks that’s funny! And it is.

                  Queen bed Answered on April 12, 2020.
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