QOTD-10-14-2020- Car Sex?

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    So Scott asked if I could switch places with him and do the Wednesday QOTD while he takes over Monday’s. Scott, your wish is my command!

    So the house DW and I are moving into soon has a two car garage. We have never had the luxury of a garage before and naturally that has led to thoughts of some nooky in our vehicles. 

    What tips do you have or what thoughts would like to share regarding the subject of car sex?

     

    On the floor Asked on October 14, 2020 in Question of the Day.

    Didn’t know you were going to take me up on the offer!

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      In the garage may be a little different than out and about, but for her, wearing a skirt makes things easily accessible and can keep things kind of hidden if you happen to be seen.

      Have some wipes for cleaning up.

      Remember it’s really about the novelty, the variety, and the adventure… it’s not necessarily going to be comfortable and she may not get much from it.

      Under the stars Answered on October 14, 2020.
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        Beyond the novelty factor, it doesn’t tend to be very comfortable. WoT is probably the best position, or fellatio or clitoral stimulation.

        The best car sex I ever had wasn’t in the car, but rather bent over it. The hood of our first car was just the right height. Just deactivate the car alarm, or your experience may be a little more thrilling than you were hoping. 😵

        Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on October 14, 2020.
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          Thought of about doing this with her girls still living in the house. We’ve closed the garage door and made out and fondled some but not continued on from there. 

          I like the back of a truck bed under the stars rather than the garage.

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          Under the stars Answered on October 14, 2020.

          Sorry, NWNL, I had to read your post more than once! I just couldn’t figure out how your DW’s girls could be in the house while she was in the garage with you fondling her and the door was closed! Stretchy and painful!

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          Truck bed can be really fun if you have a bed-mat, and a camper shell. Of course if the stars are out, so are the skeeters…

          Probably one of the most memorable dates DW and I had was a similar situation. We didn’t have sex, but it was still fun. I’m still surprised she went out there with me at that stage in our dating. But she was sure of herself and I’m sure figured she could handle the situation. It was a good think she was there because she took the wheel and helped me get the truck un-stuck, and it was a manual one-ton. Yep, just another instance that sealed the deal for me – this was MY kind of woman!

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            I agree with @Dovegrey. The thought of car sex is pretty sexy, but the reality is a little different unless your car is like a minivan and can lay down on a bench seat. WOT in the passenger seat with the seat reclined is probably the best option for success. Good luck !

            King bed Answered on October 14, 2020.

            Maybe mutual masterbation would be a decent option also.

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              My only advice would be to take measures to ensure you don’t get seen/caught. Certainly don’t want to get into legal trouble!

              We’ve never had vehicle sex even though we’ve had an attached 2-car garage for 7.5 yr. Our first car never would have worked. We’ve had a minivan for 4 yr now but still haven’t tried it. I think for us, when/if we do, we’ll just lay down all the seats, put down a blanket, and can then have sex as we normally do. Temperature regulation certainly seems like it could be a problem though!

              -Scott

              Under the stars Answered on October 14, 2020.
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                I agree, it isn’t typically a place of comfort. But there is a sense of adventure and novelty! Our most common activity in a vehicle over the years would OS.

                A skirt and wipes are good advice. Also, a towel or throw on the seat would be good. Some nice music is a treat.

                Under the stars Answered on October 14, 2020.
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                  DW  and I recently purchased a piece of property with a very secluded picnic area. I surprised her with a date night there, and since we were both good kids growing up and had never had backseat sex, we tried it out in my pickup. It wasn’t particularly comfortable but it was HOT. I don’t think she O’d, but she was all warmed up for it when we got home!

                  Twin bed Answered on October 14, 2020.
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                    The only car sex DW and I have ever had was once looooong ago in her Mazda Miata. Yes….a two seat tiny sports car. Memorable. Maybe the reason such has never happened again 😆  That was a sexy little car though.  We laid the passenger seat all the way back and wrestled around in several positions. Fond memory…

                    Now I have a truck you could throw a dance party in the back seat and she won’t consider it again. Her basic reasoning is “why? when we can wait and do it in comfort at home?”  Hard to argue that. But maybe I should try again as things do seem to be changing a little around here.

                    You asked for advice – I’d suggest a condom. It would remove a lot of inconvenience that could cloud the experience. A seat cover might me in order either way if you have cloth seats. 

                    I can see how this is one of those many things that a lower drive spouse might see as unnecessary obstacles. As my wife has said – “Why?” They would likely not see it in the same way, through the same lens. So some preparation might be in order. It’s only been 28 years since we had car sex, maybe that’s enough… 🙂

                    Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on October 14, 2020.

                    LOL at “throw a dance party in the back seat”.

                    And yes, “pecker tracks” on cloth upholstery can be an issue.

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                      We never ML in our car while parked in our garage but many years ago when our boys were 1, 3, and 5 and I had a land yacht (Buick Electra), DW and I had a torrid session on the front seat with the boys all asleep in their car seats on the back seat while parked on the back row of a (closed) truck weigh station on an interstate.   It was great!

                      On the floor Answered on October 14, 2020.

                      mmmm – That brings back a not-so-fond memory for me. And one you might not want to hear. 🙂

                      I was about 12, my parents were still split up at the time, we were living down the road apart from dad, but they were trying to “reconcile” if you want to call it that. And they had taken me along on one of their dates and had driven mom’s car, a ’77 Nova sedan – bench front seat back then. I was asleep in the back seat when they arrived back at home where dad was living.   ….they thought I was asleep….  They never knew otherwise ’cause I never told them. Now they have both passed on without the knowledge that their son was wide awake in the back seat while they did the deed up front. Can’t say that it damaged me really, as I had walked in on them a time or two before, but never had I been that close for the whole show. I didn’t sit up and watch, but I was fully in the know of what was going on. I remember dad leaning over the seat and saying “he’s asleep…” 🙂

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                      Like you said, it didn’t do any damage to you… and you got a “lesson” of sorts on an important element of a healthy marriage, even if some other aspects of their marriage were struggling…

                      After all, you offer a lot of good advice and input on this forum.  Our boys were definitely asleep… none were old enough yet to think that they should fake it.  We had been driving for about 4 hours and were almost to my grandparent’s house where we’d be visiting for the weekend… and their squeeky guest BR box springs were going to render us celibate for the weekend.  I remember taking the two youngest in to their house, still asleep with their heads over my shoulder.

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