I don’t remember a position for either one, but I would bet my paycheck it was missionary for both.
All I remember was the first daughter was conceived in the bed of a fifth wheel trailer…where we were living after moving across the country!
All three were conceived in missionary position. All the kids were planned, so the conception-sex was usually scheduled to hit her fertility window.
We had a difficult time conceiving. I remember learning about pregnancy number 1; I was on a business trip to England, and was talking to her on the night before coming home. She told me she was expecting, and I remember being very nervous the whole flight back; nervous about being a father for the first time, and nervous about getting home safely!
Our four children were conceived decades ago, so I don’t remember the position but it was probably missionary. They were all planned carefully and my DW did all the “planning” around her cycle. I will add this: DW is a quiet, non aggressive type person who when she wants something, will go after it in a slightly different approach. I clearly remember that when the time was “right” she aggressively pursued me (and my sperm) and I found that a huge turn on until I figured out what was going on 😁. It is worth adding that I wanted children as well so we were on the same page there. During these years of trying to conceive, DW had an early miscarriage and that was rough. I imagine this question might be a tough one for a few of our members.
Not a clue. That was in a different life…with a different wife…and too many years ago to remember. The only other thing I could say is that each conception of my boys was the only time I can remember feeling “wanted/desired” and at the same time, feeling used, like a piece of meat with my now-ex because she wanted babies.
Our 3 sons were planned only in the sense that we were both ready for children and DW stopped taking her BC pills about 4 yrs into our marriage (and had her tubes tied after delivering our 3rd) but she didn’t track her cycle, temp etc. If she wasn’t having her period, we ML early and often. Since missionary was our predominant position (+/- 80% IIRC), all were very likely conceived in missionary.
We fondly laugh that our first was almost certainly conceived in a Holiday Inn off of I-75 just south of Cincinnati when we were in the process of relocating from WI to TN. We had been separated for about 5 weeks while I started a new project and our reunion was especially passionate and my seed was overflowing! Although I hadn’t really connected the dots before your question, it is likely that our other two sons were conceived in similar reunions because they too were born roughly 9 months after we had relocated to a new city (we lived in 8 different towns in our first 10 years of marriage due to my work.)
All of ours were planned, though I can’t point to a specific session for any of the kids even though we were following NFP and all that…we were simply having sex every other day. Best guesses:
- “Go to” position or missionary
- “Go to” position
- “Go to” position, missionary, or WOT
- “Go to” position, missionary, or WOT
Only #2 was in a time when we were having great sex spontaneously anyway (usually in the form of really hot sex between midnight and 2 am since we were working on our house at the time). For #3 and #4, I felt used/like a piece of meat. At that point, TTC was the only time she really seemed that into sex, and she even opted for WOT for some of those sessions, which was quite rare.
The conception ‘video’ that replays in my mind continues to be a sweet memory! The evening unfolded with intimacy and we ended up have passionate sex on our living room floor – nearly 40 years ago! That was the night that Mrs. Youngbear was impregnated with our youngest – a son. The moment was so intense and fantastic that I told her after our simultaneous orgasm via missionary position that I ‘knew’ we had conceived! I just knew that God had knitted my seed with her egg to form our child, that evening!