QOTD- 3/23/20 –Outdoor Sex?
Have you and your spouse engaged in sexual activities outside the confines of your abode? If so, how did it go and what tips do you have to make it an enjoyable and private experience?
If not, do you plan to do this at some point in the future?
In our early years we did more often…. we seemed to like lakes, at night and in the broad daylight. In an empty hotel pool at night. When driving and we got the urge we pulled over when we could, such as in an empty parking lot or in a wheat field. Or there where times when he was driving and no need to stop for the sexual act to occur.
Kids changed things. Cameras everywhere changed things. Living in a more populated area has changed things. Because of that, “outside of our abode” tends to be in our car…. I have taken him to the back of a fairly empty parking lot, where we would be less likely to be seen, and we moved to the back…there’s a little benefit to a minivan 😉
We did in my parents’ field (so we pretty much knew it’d be private) The hay was freshly mowed and it was a nice summer day. Got a big picnic table umbrella and made a big stake to sink into the ground that it would sit on. Spread out my big painters drop cloths so we wouldn’t be prickled by the stubble of the grass. Took it all out on the 4 wheeler. We dressed up for a summer photo shoot. I had on a hawaiian shirt and jean shorts, and she had on a sun wrap-type dress. Anyway, ate some strawberries, took some photos with the remote clicker, and had sex!
We have enjoyed this several times. In someone’s pool, in our backyard, etc. One time when DW was sunbathing nude in a rural area, I snuck up on her and started massaging her. We ended with PIV!
We have also done HJ and OS in parking lots, even at a major theme park!
Thankfully, we have never been caught!
We’ve engaged in sexual activity (nude foreplay, PIV, masturbation, skinny dipping) on a balcony in Cozumel, a lanai in Florida, and our swimming pool (at dusk, a deer scared Mrs. Oldbear when she was in the throes of her orgasm and that curbed her enthusiasm).
Although we haven’t engaged in naked sex on our very private patio deck overlooking a wildlife preserve, it’s on my todo list!
In the hot tub once. In our sons play fort. On the to do list is in the back field or out in the woods. Not many beaches where I live, but that would be on the list too. I would think a big blanket or beach towel would be in order. Sounds like some suntan lotion or mosquito spray would be in order as well depending on the time of day or night. Loads of fun.
We’ve had all sorts of outdoor shenanigans! On the beach (mostly at night as it’s much less likely anyone will be around). In the ocean once—not as easy as it seemed it would be because of the wave action moving us into reef rocks and afterwards DW got a yeast infection.
We’ve done it on multiple hotel balconies at night, including once in Hawaii in a light rain that was magical.
Done it in the backyard a time or two, thanks to tall wooden fences, and in the hot tub more times than I can count.
A “halfway” outdoor experience can also be had in a tent—takes care of not being seen, but does little to prevent being heard. If you get a tent with some mesh skylights and don’t put on the rain fly you can see the sky or the stars while enjoying each other.
When we visit Hawaii, we usually rent a convertible. I’ve told DW that next time we go we should find a deserted place to do it in the car with the top open.
Best advice for those wanting to try something outside—don’t expect a long session; time is of the essence in not being seen in a lot of circumstances. It’s exciting for sure, so it may be short but very HOT!
Two particular times come to mind, etched into my memory:
About 2 months before we married (we had been ML about 6 mos by that time) DW and I were laying nude on a blanket, petting heavily in the broad daylight on a hillside covered with chest-high broom straw out in the country – a short walk from a country road about midway between the road and the wood line higher up on the hillside. It was great. About the time we were both ready to ML a beagle comes busting through the grass, nose down, tail up, and very “curious” about our nether regions LOL… shocked, my DW sat up and I quickly covered her mouth because I recognized him as a hunting dog on the prowl and sure enough his master was about 50 ft away. I threw on my pants and tee shirt and stood up as the hunter was walking towards us in the high grass (while DW struggled to put her bra on and get covered up.) I smiled at the surprised hunter and said “Hi… no rabbits over here buddy” and he got my drift and called Fido away who was still very much intoxicated by my beloved’s scent… Needless to say, that put a damper on our outdoor adventures for a while.
Fast forward 9-10 yrs later… DW and I cruising down the interstate in my company car, a land yacht with wide, plush seats, and our 3 sons ages 5, 3, and 1 asleep on the back seat of the car. We are almost to the exit for my grandparent’s town (a 5 hr drive from our home) where we will visit them for a long weekend. It is about 10PM on a warm early-summer evening. Earlier she had told me that with my grandparents’ squeaky box springs in their guest bedroom that this would be a celibate trip for me…I was driving and DW was cuddling with me with the armrest up, taking advantage of our boys sleeping soundly in the back. She massages my inner thigh and before long unzips my pants and our passions took over. There was a trucker’s weigh station about 3 miles before my grandparent’s exit and I see that it is closed so I quickly deaccelerate and drive to the back of the truck area where we are the only ones there. It was the most passionate sex we’d had since our youngest son’s birth, with windows steamed up like a couple of high-schoolers… our sons slept through it all. Good thing DW had wet wipes in our baby son’s diaper bag. It’s notable that this was the last time I left “pecker tracks” on the car seat too… and a good thing that it was leather.
Yes, we were young once… even writing this puts a smile on my face.
DW and I haven’t really been sexual outside the house except for sexting and some light petting. My dream is to rent a secluded mountain cabin in the middle of the woods. Then we can either take a woods walk and I take her from behind against a tree or we find a secluded clearing and go out at night with a blow-up mattress and make love under the stars.