QOTD – 3/2720 – how many positions have you done/do you use?
So DW & I were talking as a part of our 21 day connection challenge and it turned towards bedroom activities and how many different positions we have used. I mentioned a 16-20 and she didn’t think it was high enough so she suggested counting. We counted every variation we could think of and got it up near 40. Doing this also allowed us to share our faves again AND what we’d like to try. How about you? How many for you? Are you up for a conversation to count with your spouse? How many have you tried in one session?
Just for clarification, every position has variations so count those too. (IE-69 has MoT and WoT….WoT could include cowgirl, reverse CG, etc because each position and variation can lead to different stimulation. Rear entry could be doggie, wheelbarrow, standing, bent over the bed/chair, 7th position Perfumed Garden,, etc)
That’s a challenge in itself to count all the ways by including OS, PIV, AS. Does that include mutual M? Like SC, usually 2-5 in any given time of LM, sometimes more. We bought a book on positions and tried many of them to experiment and to experience something new.
Homework time or maybe more research required.
We’ve tried a lot, but we generally stick to Missionary and Doggie.
WoT for whatever reason kills my erection. I don’t know.
Missionary 90 Degree works pretty well.
69 I love, but she doesn’t. We’ve tried MoT and WoT.
A lot of it I imagine would depend on shape. I have a downward curve so some positions don’t work like straights or upcurves.
Some of these positions I’m gonna have to google.
We have tried some over the years, but we have 3 tried and true that work well. I also believe that a lot of positions and the ability to do them depends quite a bit on shapes and angles.
We usually stick with one or two positions in one session.
I tend to dismiss the variations and group them all together under the main type. That’s why any books we have ever seen on positions has always been disappointing; seventeen pages are virtually the same with only one or two little things changed. We’ve tried most. The only ones we haven’t are the ones that involve him holding me up or ones that involve a lot of bending or require little thin bodies to accomplish.
Dealing with PE has limited our variety in this area, as some positions I can’t last long enough to get into. Nonetheless, I could think of a dozen that we’ve tried. Typical encounters involve only one position (not always the same one) but we’ve managed a few times lately to switch positions during an encounter. Our max in one session is 3.
How many for you?
Counting all the variations we have done at least 10 or so.
How many have you tried in one session?
Two or three. We tend to spend most of our intimate time bringing DW to O manually. By the time this occurs it can be very hard to hold ejaculation so we rarely go past our default position.
i think just
69 (we don’t do that anymore too hard to concentrate)
Variations of missionary we do now because of my hip needing replaced PAIN
Used to do WOT no way anymore too much pain
Pretty much on my back for OS and on my side with him standing for OS for him that’s it