QOTD – 3/2720 – how many positions have you done/do you use?

So DW & I were talking as a part of our 21 day connection challenge and it turned towards bedroom  activities and how many different positions we have used. I mentioned a 16-20 and she didn’t think it was high enough so she suggested counting. We counted every variation we could think of and got it up near 40. Doing this also allowed us to share our faves again AND what we’d like to try.  How about you? How many for you? Are you up for a conversation to count with your spouse? How many have you tried in one session?

Just for clarification, every position has variations so count those too. (IE-69 has MoT and WoT….WoT could include cowgirl, reverse CG, etc because each position and variation can lead to different stimulation. Rear entry could be doggie, wheelbarrow, standing, bent over the bed/chair, 7th position Perfumed Garden,, etc)

Under the stars Asked on March 27, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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    Over the 25+ years- too many to recall easily

    The challenge- nope, not up to it

    Typical encounter- 2-5 (w/ the variations)

    Under the stars Answered on March 27, 2020.
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      That’s a challenge in itself to count all the ways by including OS, PIV, AS.  Does that include mutual M?  Like SC, usually 2-5 in any given time of LM, sometimes more.  We bought a book on positions and tried many of them to experiment and to experience something new.

      Homework time or maybe more research required.

      On the floor Answered on March 27, 2020.
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        Over 3 decades of marriage the total number would be fairly high – but not high enough to break any records lol! Probably in mid to high teens in number.

        In one session? Typically 4-5. Some times up to 6 or more.

        Under the stars Answered on March 27, 2020.
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          We’ve tried a lot, but we generally stick to Missionary and Doggie.
          WoT for whatever reason kills my erection. I don’t know.
          Missionary 90 Degree works pretty well.
          69 I love, but she doesn’t. We’ve tried MoT and WoT.
          A lot of it I imagine would depend on shape. I have a downward curve so some positions don’t work like straights or upcurves.

          Some of these positions I’m gonna have to google.

          California King Answered on March 27, 2020.

          Its fascinating how different God makes people. WOT for me is the position where I’m most likely to PE. I think it has something to do with the fact that if we’re doing WOT DW is really into it and the excitement can be too much for me.

          on March 28, 2020.
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            We have tried some over the years, but we have 3 tried and true that work well. I also believe that a lot of positions and the ability to do them depends quite a bit on shapes and angles.

            We usually stick with one or two positions in one session.

            Under the stars Answered on March 27, 2020.
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              I tend to dismiss the variations and group them all together under the main type. That’s why any books we have ever seen on positions has always been disappointing; seventeen pages are virtually the same with only one or two little things changed. We’ve tried most. The only ones we haven’t are the ones that involve him holding me up or ones that involve a lot of bending or require little thin bodies to accomplish.

              Under the stars Answered on April 7, 2020.

              Love your comment “The only ones we haven’t are the ones that involve him holding me up or ones that involve a lot of bending or require little thin bodies to accomplish. ”  Maybe back in the day, but now it would be more for laughs that we even attempted some pretzel position.  🙂

              on April 7, 2020.

              Us too Duchess. Standing wall/holding up positions just left us in laughter and well, no need to try that again. 😀  (And we’ll usually try something again just to see if we can do it.)

              on April 7, 2020.
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                Dealing with PE has limited our variety in this area, as some positions I can’t last long enough to get into. Nonetheless, I could think of a dozen that we’ve tried. Typical encounters involve only one position (not always the same one) but we’ve managed a few times lately to switch positions during an encounter. Our max in one session is 3.

                On the floor Answered on March 27, 2020.
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                  How many for you? 

                  Counting all the variations we have done at least 10 or so.

                  How many have you tried in one session?

                  Two or three. We tend to spend most of our intimate time bringing DW to O manually. By the time this occurs it can be very hard to hold ejaculation so we rarely go past our default position.

                  On the floor Answered on March 27, 2020.
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                    As I get older I have become a lot less flexible although I didn’t have a lot of joint flexibility in my 20s but I did a lot more flexibility exercises.  It is hard to do some variations.   DH is a lot more flexible.

                    Double bed Answered on March 27, 2020.
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                      i think just

                      69 (we don’t do that anymore too hard to concentrate)

                      Variations of missionary we do now because of my hip needing replaced PAIN

                      Rear entry

                      Used to do WOT no way anymore too much pain

                      Pretty much on my back for OS and on my side with him standing for OS for him that’s it

                      On the floor Answered on March 27, 2020.
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