QOTD- 3/30/20 –What would you do first?

    Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?

    Bonus Question: If your spouse decided to surprise you with sex, how would you want them to go about it? What would be the preferred method of initiation? What would you like your spouses’ demeaner and attitude to look like? Any preferred positioning?

    (I encourage everybody, even if you don’t respond to the questions here, to think about these questions and inform your spouse of your answers. One of the hard things I have had to learn about married life is how many unspoken expectations we have that our spouse may know nothing about. By not openly discussing desires and expectations a couple opens themselves up to a world of hurt. DW and I have learned this the hard way. )

    On the floor Asked on March 29, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      Tell him to put his clothes back on, we are going to Chick-fil-A! 😆

      Under the stars Answered on March 30, 2020.

      My wife LOL’ed so hard when I read her this. 🙂

      on March 30, 2020.

      I told my husband about this question and my answer…. he laughed pretty hard too and said, “That’s so true, that’s exactly what would happen!”

      on March 30, 2020.

      I asked my H to take me out for Mexican food right when the virus started (not thinking) and he wisely nixed it. Can’t wait to go!

      on March 30, 2020.

      Zelda LOL’d hard at your answer when we went through it last night. Agreed with the premise behind it too!

      -Scott

      on April 3, 2020.
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        If my DH got that far as taking off his clothes and just informing me like that, he would be itching for some fun. I’d likely push him onto the bed, tell him to keep his hands to himself and proceed to tease him. Than I would tell him I was going to have some fun at his expense. We would both be satisfied at the end. I might also tell him since he ‘wasted’ part of my day like that, that I need help with my to-do list.

        For myself, this has never happened of course, but it would be kind of exciting for him to say the house was spotless, supper was planned or in the oven, my work was all caught up, and there was some new lingerie on the bed, and this time was all about me! To empty my mind and enjoy! Of course, he would know that he would be rewarded as well.

        Under the stars Answered on March 30, 2020.
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          Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?

          Lets just say there would lots of sensual kissing, caressing,  and foreplay followed by bending her over and taking her passionately from behind. There is something beautifully primal about this kind of sex.  For me it is a figurative sign that this woman is mine to have, hold, love, cherish, sacrifice for, be my partner, and be intimate with (more than just sex) for the rest of our days. She has freely given herself to me and by taking her in this most primal way I have staked my claim.

          This would be followed of course by taking her to bed and giving her as many climaxes as she desires. 🙂

          If your spouse decided to surprise you with sex, how would you want them to go about it? What would be the preferred method of initiation? What would you like your spouses’ demeaner and attitude to look like? Any preferred positioning?

          When my wife initiates sex she does a really good job of presentation. Personally I prefer an obvious invitation (e.g. lingerie), accompanied by a demeaner of desire and playfulness. When DW does this I am putty in her hands.

          Position wise if she is driving the encounter the best for us would probably be WOT in a chair. I just like the idea of being pushed into a chair and her taking over to pleasure both of us. 🙂

          On the floor Answered on March 29, 2020.
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            Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?

            Lie down on a bed or couch and kiss and cuddle, massage her back, butt. I would like to pleasure her somehow (probably with her favorite toy), and then have PIV sex in the missionary position (it is her favorite, and does afford lots of closeness and intimacy)

             

            If your spouse decided to surprise you with sex, how would you want them to go about it? What would be the preferred method of initiation? What would you like your spouses’ demeaner and attitude to look like? Any preferred positioning?

            I like the idea of her showing up in lingerie, or maybe yoga pants and a tank top!

            On the floor Answered on March 30, 2020.

            Oddly enough, my DH thinks I look really attractive (or his words – hot) in yoga pants and my sports bra.  I never though of sports bras as attractive – but go figure …. men lol !

            on March 30, 2020.
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              All kinds of thoughts are whirling through my mind with that question.  I would join her in being naked (all day).  Hot tub followed by a shower to rinse off would begin the day.  Lots of fondling in the shower ending up in the bedroom or any room for passionate LM.  It would be a slow process enjoying every inch and part of each other’s bodies beginning with a tender massage (she prefers lotion, I prefer oil), ending with passionate LM.  That’s round 1.  Did I say naked all day?  Since I enjoy lingerie, taking her time to pick something out and ready herself for a time of intimacy would mean a lot to me.  All day nakedness along with multiple Os would be a beautiful thing.  To the second question would be for her to initiate ending in PIV with WOT position.  I’ll end with that and keep it PG.

              On the floor Answered on March 30, 2020.
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                Easy! First thing I would do, is oral! After her first orgasm, i would remove my clothes, and wing-it from there! 😉

                Her best initiating were surprises, that I remember, and remember well, when when she walked into the living-room, or into the yard, sometimes with a toy, and sat down in front of me, and started without me while I watched.  After a bit of staring and drooling on my part, she asked me if I would like to join her!

                Hammock Answered on March 30, 2020.
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                  Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?  First, I think I’d ask for some ID to make sure that it was really my wife asking that question.  While she enjoys sex, she’s not one to  do something like that so I’ve been trying to imagine how I’d respond.

                  After turning our phones off,  I think it would be fun to blindfold her and tie her rather spread-eagle on the bed.  I would then take my time applying sweet pleasure in the most creative and deliberate ways.  I’d want to keep her guessing about what was coming next and for how long.  Eventually, I would look to help her find a much wanted orgasm in her most favorite way.

                  Then we’d get dressed and go clean some closets.

                  Fell out of ... Answered on March 30, 2020.
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                    Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?

                    What I would want to do and what would be the best for her experience are two different things. I would want to lay her back on the edge of the bed or chair and admire her vulva and perform cunnilingus. Then continue with placing kisses all over. However the best thing I could do is start with a long, slow, sensual, full body massage, including every part of her and building her desire with teasing touch and tempo. I would want to take her to the edge and keep her there for awhile. When she was more than ready, I would bring her to O with my mouth and hands and then bend her over the massage table for me.

                    If your spouse decided to surprise you with sex, how would you want them to go about it? What would be the preferred method of initiation? What would you like your spouses’ demeaner and attitude to look like? Any preferred positioning?

                    I would enjoy coming home to her in the kitchen with lingerie…or a lacy sheer black robe I love…or some sexy jeans and a white ribbed tank top (wife beater) and being teasing and playful while she makes dinner. DW would drive me crazy with both her touch and kisses starting with an encounter with her on the counter and also allowing me to kiss and touch her BUT only allowing her to climax. It is not an option for me because she has other plans for after a light dinner. Then we would proceed to the living room to continue our lovemaking on the awesome rug but enjoy some positions on the sofa for making out and OS first, then some positions from behind on the couch and floor before finishing with me on top on the rug.

                    Another idea would be to come home to a the layout a nice spread of food/snacks in the bedroom with lingerie on. We could talk and play a sensual game and go from there. She could be sensual and salty. I’d enjoy a strip tease and her telling me to lay back and watch her masturbate, maybe even put some ties or cuffs on me while does that and teases me with touches & kisses, including OS for both of us. She would eventually end this escapade with WoT.

                    Under the stars Answered on March 30, 2020.
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                      Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?

                      Well, first of all, I would get naked too and do lots of hugs and cuddling. I’d give her a full-body massage, with great background music playing. While soothing her body physically, I would commend and adore it verbally and visually. I’d proceed to stimulate her sexually and finally give her an extended OS. Then using one of her favorite vibes, we work together to bring her to multiple Os. Then we’d have PIV and enjoy the afterglow. I’d prepare her favorite coffee and we’d snuggle and talk. Then, we’d watch a movie and snuggle some more.  That is what I’d want to do first (as you asked.) Then, if we really had the rest of the day,  we’d go to second, third, fourth,  etc.!

                      Bonus Question: If your spouse decided to surprise you with sex, how would you want them to go about it? What would be the preferred method of initiation?

                      A provocative look on her face, erotic words, sexy dance, groping hands, flaunting of her goods, etc. leading to her ripping off my clothes!

                      Under the stars Answered on March 30, 2020.
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                        Imagine your spouse walks into the room, takes off their clothes, and tells you they are yours for the rest of the day. What would you want to do first?

                        Like SC said (pretending there is no world with COVID 19), i would ask to put his clothes back on and take me out to dinner and a movie, something we do maybe once a year, we don’t spend money like that hardly ever and it would be nice to do that, also go for a drive and take in the sights, get coffee, park and talk.

                        Also it would be to put our new toilet in that has been sitting in our living room since July (health issues), just things like that–out of the ordinary things!

                        Bonus Question: If your spouse decided to surprise you with sex, how would you want them to go about it? What would be the preferred method of initiation? What would you like your spouses’ demeaner and attitude to look like? Any preferred positioning?

                        It would be like he usually does, he starts amorously caressing and groping me without “asking” and that is fine with me (except if i’m doing the dishes or something) and has that look on his face that he intensely desires me. AFA positions, it’s whatever works at the time due to pain etc but i am really liking OS for me at the moment.

                        On the floor Answered on March 30, 2020.
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