QOTD-5/18/2020- Do you have sex sometimes with clothes on?
Do you and your spouse engage in sexual activity with some article of clothing remaining on one or both of you?
DW and I engage in two types of “clothes-play”. The first is mostly for foreplay where we mess around and touch each other over and under clothing. Sometimes DW will make out with me to bring me to orgasm when we don’t have the ability to go to bed.
The second type is during a full encounter. DW loves lingerie and dressing up in the bedroom and I love the thrill of hiking her skirt and taking her while she’s still somewhat clothed. It just conveys a feeling of passion, urgency, and manly sexual prowess that we both enjoy. We recently added crotchless panties to the mix and the results were quite enjoyable.
The only time we leave clothes on when ML is when it’s a quickie that happens spontaneously and we decide we want each other so bad we aren’t going to bother taking everything off. I guess also in semi-public situations—ie sex in single user bathrooms, on the airplane, etc.
As for foreplay, I love leaving clothes on for awhile to grope through and/or over clothing as a way to add variety. DW usually goes straight for getting naked so I don’t often get that extra dimension. But I’ll never complain about my wife getting NAKED! 😏
Normally DW and I prefer ‘naked’ sex because we both really love the feel of ‘skin to skin’ contact very arousing for both of us. However, on occasion DW will wear a sexy piece of lingerie (typically something like a babydoll) and leave it on during love making. DW has some really sexy leggings that highlight her butt and it is my hope that we can one day include them in our sex wardrobe.
At first after reading your ? I thought of dry humping which we don’t dry hump.
But after seeing your examples, I was thinking no but then remembered that just this wknd, DW was trying on different clothes and asking me what I thought. One of them was a black 100% cotton sundress and let me just say that sundresses and Summer go great together when it comes to foreplay and sex.
Usually not. The clothes are the first thing to toss and get out of the way to get at the important stuff!
There are those times, when spontaneous things happen, in the yard, or out camping or wherever, and the clothing is left on, and just ‘adjusted’, for the task at hand. 😉
I bought my wife this one-size-fits-all stretchy lingerie thing a few years ago. When we first got married, I just wanted her naked, that’s it. I thought why would I want lingerie to obscure the beauty. But i read something about lingerie making womenf eel sexy, and this was cheap and I thought I’d just give it a try.
She didn’t want to have sex. I think he’d just had it the night before. But I’d just bought it and I persuaded her to try it on. She said, “This looks like something a prostitute would wear.
Then she looks at herself in the mirror a little, and wants to do it with the lingerie on. She’s not one to try lots of positions, but she wanted a different position, so she sat in my lap on a stool she used to sit on for her makeup.
That one was black. I bought her a pink one. i figured i’d get her to try it on one time when we’d just had sex the night before and she didn’t want sex. 🙂 I’ve tried ot get her to put in on a couple of times and she hasn’t already.
A few times, I’ve done her with other clothes on when she wanted to because she said that seemed more erotic for her.