QOTD-5/19/2020- Guys, are your erections weaker after a very satisfying encounter?

    So after a very satisfying encounter with DW I noticed my subsequent erections have been a bit weaker the last few days. Has this happened to you? Wives feel free to answer for your husbands.

    On the floor Asked on May 18, 2020 in Question of the Day.
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      Its natural.

      Hammock Answered on May 19, 2020.
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        After sex (good or otherwise), I can usually get a ‘normal’ erection again by the next day. What I have noticed is that as I have aged my erections are more easily weakened by mental distractions.

        On the floor Answered on May 19, 2020.
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          It depends. If the next encounter is really hot, then it has no impact. I define really hot as DW is showing desire or really into it. 🙂 However, if the next time is within the next 24 hours and a just for me encounter, then yes, it might be a little weaker.

          Fell out of ... Answered on May 19, 2020.
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            I can’t say as an erection gets weaker after an intense encounter, but I do agree with Olorin that as I have gotten older, during LM while I am pleasuring my wife for her O, my erection will become flaccid, but easily aroused again. It can be a challenge when my wife is ready for PIV and she has to pause and stimulate again. But as to having a weaker erection days later, no.

            Blanket on a secluded beach! Answered on May 19, 2020.
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              If he does, I haven’t seen or heard any evidence of it. Morning is always his hardest and largest erections, and we typically have sex at night, so… either he isn’t satisfied or it’s not applicable or I am just in the dark.

              Under the stars Answered on May 19, 2020.
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                What Olorin & Tim said.

                On the floor Answered on May 19, 2020.
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                  Hard to say (no pun intended).
                  Maybe weaker the day after, but two days in a row is pretty rare. Usually after 3 or 4 days it starts feeling like that baby alien in Alien, about to bust through my pants. Enjoy that visual.
                  Otherwise, it’s never an issue.
                  I can tell you it’s definitely weaker after an UNsatisfying encounter. But that’s a different topic altogether.

                  Fell out of ... Answered on May 19, 2020.
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                    So after a very satisfying encounter with DW I noticed my subsequent erections have been a bit weaker the last few days. Has this happened to you?

                    I would say no.  Unless they have been during the refractory period. Also, I believe it to be common that as we age, our refractory period lengthens. But generally I would say that whether the encounter was very satisfying or somewhat less so, it doesn’t impact subsequent erections for me.

                    Under the stars Answered on May 19, 2020.
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                      Nope.

                      I’m ready to go, in minutes, hours, days, whatever. After that initial encounter, I can last longer, so it’s a big plus!

                      Hammock Answered on May 19, 2020.
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                        I think it may be age related more than encounter related – how long has it been – how has ones stress been – how much “need/excitement/pressure” is there – and I am sure how hot is the encounter.  When you are young and you have sexual energy on overflow, I think it is easy to not see a variation which may become more visible as you age.  Sometimes a particularly great time will fuel a quicker need for a next time, but not always.

                        On the floor Answered on May 19, 2020.
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