Questions about FE
Is it possible to have a FE without realizing it?
Is it possible to have a FE without orgasming?
I am trying to determine what’s happening during some of my experiences. When things seem way wetter than just my typical lubrication.
No experience with this, but as you know, I have read a ton the last few months. 😀 I know I saw a woman commenting at TLHV saying she’d “urinated” during a near-miss at her first O, but other women thought the description was of FE (explicitly saying FE can happen before, during, or after O).
Also, this article is interesting and the last commenter indicated they have FE prior to an O:
I find the whole concept a weird simultaneous combination of intriguing and confusing at the same time. Not sure if we’d ever want to pursue this as a couple.
SC, the FE that Mrs, Oldbear produces is definitely not pee. It’s clear, viscous fluid (pleasant to the taste). She also begins to produce it during our foreplay on her g-spot. (I didn’t highlight that fact in my previous post.) Then when she Os more of this fluid (FE) is produced. It does not squirt; it oozes out. Interestingly, she began to produce more FE in latter years. Her O is not nearly as powerful – different she tells me – than in her younger years.
Perhaps this is a phenomenon (wonderful) that happens to women in their older years. She fully embraces this new development, as do I. Her production of more vaginal fluid makes it easier for me given a less than firm erection. We also use a towel these days to absorb the aftermath of our intimacy together.
SC, embrace and enjoy your new norm.
@Kay, yes, Female Ejaculation.
I have always naturally lubricated really well (have-to-take-pauses-to-dry-things-off, kind of “really well.”) What I am talking about is beyond what is normal for me. Last night was a 6″-8″ diameter wetspot on the sheets, and no orgasm for me.
@Scott, thanks for that link…. I liked this conclusion, “While experts can’t land on a conclusive origin of the fluid, there does seem to be consensus that “something” is happening that is quite wet.” 😀 That’s quite scientific and it’s a good thing we have the experts. 😉
In our experience, Mrs. Oldbear, even in her post-menopausal years, produces FE during her orgasm. Often I am massaging her g-spot and can feel her FE release around my fingers during her O. And, yes, it results in a delightful wet spot. She doesn’t FE during foreplay, but does generate plenty of wetness, pre-O.