Sensitive nipples on women
Do any other women have sensitive nipples, where they don’t want their husband to touch them or suck them? My wife hasn’t let me in about 9 years since our youngest was born. She says they are too sensitive and it hurts l was always careful and touched them tenderly. She used to love it and would get really turned on, but it’s all changed. She is 46.
Any suggestions or solutions?? I miss them greatly.
No suggestions as you really cannot do anything about it, it can be a VERY intense reaction and even though i love it now, i used to hate it. Ask if you could massage around them and have some kind of breast play, making sure to avoid the nipples.
Have you happened to notice if there’s any differences, in her different arousal states?
I can tell you if I am not aroused, or not fully aroused, there are multiple different touches (i.e. kisses on the neck, direct genital touches, the nipples, etc) that are an irritant and I can feel extra sensitive that it becomes painful. But once I am fully or highly aroused, those same acts/touches feel different and become erotic rather than an irritant.
If you haven’t tried it, experiment with only stimulating them after she is fully aroused.
My case is somewhat like Tracker. Before kids, DW enjoyed lots of nipple & breast attention and I very much enjoyed giving it. With kids & nursing, the enjoyment went away and they became overly sensitive/easily irritated/sore & mostly off limits even long after nursing had ended. At least the rest of her breasts weren’t off limits. When our youngest was about 15, DW had an overall awakening (somewhat associated with getting off pill). Now she once again enjoys much nipple attention (woo hoo!). So at least in our case, it was a long-term moratorium that finally ended.
Ok, lt definitely sounds like its normal then, l hope her and her body will one enjoy it again. Years ago that’s how she wanted me to start foreplay ,way before l touch her vagina area. Sounds like things can really change after childbirth. We have 4 children, the first 3 things went back to normal pretty much after a year of nursing, but since the last ones birth, 9 years ago they have been off limits.