Let’s see if I can word this correctly so everyone actually understands what I’m talking about :). What is the most memorable sexual experience your spouse surprisingly initiated?
Two come to mind for me.
1. During the early years of our marriage my wife didn’t enjoy OS as she does now and mostly only performed it on me on my birthday as a special gift because she knew how much I enjoyed it. One night, she came home from work, immediately pulled me from the office chair, threw me on the couch, and began performing OS on me. It was so surprising it is burned in my memory and something I still think back on with excitement to this day. It wasn’t long after that that her views on OS changed and she began performing it on a more regular basis.
2. While she began to perform OS more regularly after the above incident she still wasn’t as comfortable with it being performed on her. Every so often she would let me do it, again, as a kindness and loving gesture to me since she knew I liked to do it, but it was a rare thing. I can still remember the night when she looked in my eyes and asked me to do it as she was actually desiring it.
Just last month: we have an office in our home, that I use mostly for paying the bills, sorting through receipts for taxes, etc. The office doorway opens into a hallway, overlooking an large open staircase and two-story foyer. My wife and I were home alone and I was at my office desk, reviewing our bank accounts and preparing to pay the month’s bills online, when my wife appeared in the open doorway, completely naked. She looked straight at me and said flatly, “Can you help me?” I looked up and stared in amazement. My wife had never before appeared in our home outside of our bedroom altogether nude. Speechless, she said in an almost matter-of-fact way, “I mean now.” I stood up, unzipped my jeans and began walking quickly toward her and answered, “Absolutely.” In a moment we were in the hallway groping each other hungrily, as I pulled my jeans off on the way to our bedroom and had her on her back on our bed in two swift moves. So hot. Surprising, And, awesome. I’m going to pull this on her one day soon, surprising her in a doorway. Just waiting for the right moment. Ready for more “I mean now.”
One memory was after we had just finished having PIV, my wife told me to turn over, climbed on (WOT) and said she needed to ‘grind’ some more because she wasn’t done. She well into her menopausal and her libido has definitely taken a hit so that hasn’t happened in years.
This happened to me one night when I got home from a week-long business trip and I was very tired but also, having been away for a week, extremely turned on. My DW, probably realizing that I would not last very long, just stripped off her clothes in front of me and told me to “take matters into my own hands” and finish on her. This was something totally unexpected!
1) When I entered the small sleeping area of our boat and DW was sitting on the bed completely naked. I sat down beside her, she wrapped her arms around me and we started kissing and touching. We ML passionately and afterwards she said “Thank you!”.
2) We had a night to our selves at a hotel and were cuddling naked in bed while watching a movie. In the middle of the movie, DW suddenly remove the covers, bend down and take my P in her mouth and give me OS all the way to completion. It’s the first and only time she has done it “all the way”…
Mine are related to “firsts”, and I think they were such surprises because I didn’t think guys would actually be interested in such things because of how “unclean” I had the acts in my mind, plus it was pre-marriage that added a “no-no” factor and adrenaline to it all….. cunnilingus and anything anal. (It also added guilt and other negative side-effects in our marriage we had to work through.)
Lol … XD
Once not long after we got married I had finished a long, stressful day at work. So the wife comes into the bedroom topless, she leans over me while I was resting, and began swinging her boobs back and forth so that they slapped me across the face repeatedly… it was quite comical and sexy at the same time, and we still laugh about it sometimes XD
One time I was sitting on the coach relaxing after having given DW two Os. She just walked in, sat down, took my hand and pressed it against her lady parts and stimulated herself to another O. It was surprising both for the depth of desire (normally she is one and done) and her stimulating herself (she feels bad or awkward about self stimulation most of the time).