Sleeping Skin on Skin Make you Hornier?
I experienced an answer to prayer. My wife and I seem to have not had as much sex this year as normal. Part of it was due to extended fasts (food also), travel, an irregular period at the wrong time, etc. One thing I find myself praying for is more sexual excitement in my wife, and then thinking about how I should pray about other things.
Well, I was praying for that. My wife stayed a day later doing a ministry outreach to the homeless. I’d come home early with the kids and to go to work. She got home at night and had a friend with her who needed a flight in the morning. I’d planned to take her but my wife wanted to do it. So she needed to leave at six. That night, she was tired. She said she was horny, but I could tell she needed to rest.
Normally, I don’t like weight on me when sleeping, but my wife and I slept with bare legs intertwined or on top of each other last
At 5 something, we were both awake and I was planning on taking our guest to the airport. She insisted on doing taking her, but we started messing around. She played with my private parts. I said to stay horny for me when she came back from the trip, and just mount me even if I were asleep. I was available and go ahead and use my body. So she mounts me right away. She was wet. I’d barely done any ‘petting’ type foreplay on her, which might have been why she was so tight at first like when I’d first married her. She rode me for a long time, not quite able to orgasm. After a while, she pulled on me to get on top and asked us not to separate. Finally, she had one orgasm. She wanted to squirt/female ejaculate to relieve the pressure, but she had to take her friend, so I agreed to play with her later, which I haven’t done yet, so I still have a duty to perform later. (It’s a tough job, but what can I say.) So I’m planning on having some full blown intercourse as part of my service toward her later.
I asked her why she was so horny today. She said she’d had a sexual dream. She just finished her period and we’d spent the night, her sleeping with the kids, in a friends house over the weekend. So it has been a while for her. But I wonder if us sleeping with legs intertwined contributed to it. I’m definitely planning on experimenting with that. Skin contact releases oxytocin. Does anyone have any experience with that? This was all done in the dark. I usually like to have a light on so I can see her body and see what I’m doing. So I may experiment with proposing sex in the dark more.
This was also an answered prayer, down to her ‘aggressive’ approach to WOT lovemaking. It was a lot of fun and much needed.
I don’t know that that’s it for us…but it certainly makes us more aware and more available to each other. I would submit being naked and touching is part of truly vulnerable and having full intimacy, without barriers, and what Scripture refers to the beauty of the Garden, when Adam and Eve were naked and unashamed..
I think skin to skin sure makes a difference. I can just feel myself relaxing when I curl or cuddle up next to DH. We sleep intertwined or nearly full body contact every night. Also, if doing skin to skin kangaroo care in NICU is so helpful, why wouldn’t it be for couples, as well? When we had a preemie in NICU for a short while, it was amazing to see the numbers on the monitor straighten out once that baby was tucked against my chest and tied on. I loved it and so did that baby. So, I can imagine skin to skin with my DH does sort of the same thing.
Don’t know, but I strongly suspect it would 🙂 I’ve asked for it a few times. Gone to bed that way myself a few times. Never got any reciprocal activity. Even now after the kids are gone and nobody will magically appear at our door. Well, I guess they could still but it would not be pleasant for them….anyways. It really would not matter if it made me more horny or not.
We did not sleep with legs intertwined, but we’d had the unusual experience of having sex a second time in one day, so that was really good. She sort of initiated the second time, not physically like this morning. She said something about having sex, took a shower, and laid down naked, ready for action. She asked me if I had the energy for it. I told her I had the energy for her. The intention was for her to do the female ejaculation thing, but it didn’t happen. She said maybe she hadn’t been drinking enough water. Maybe she was dehydrated. Anyway, it’s a good excuse to try again soon. She’s driving out of town and probably coming back late at night, then a Thanksgiving trip, so we’ll see how it goes. I’ve been praying for an increase in her sex drive, so this is definitely a good thing.
My wife rarely sleeps without pjs. In the summer if it is extremely hot, she might remove the top, so there is little skin to skin except during ML or in the shower. We do on occasion cuddle up behind the other for a bit when while laying on the side, but then we get back into our usual sleeping position after a while. I’m like rotisserie chicken and do a lot of rolling until I hit that sweet comfort spot where I drift off to sleep. But I will say though that even though it may not be skin to skin, the spooning position does make me a bit hornier even though its main purpose is for cuddling close before going to sleep.